prepky: well trackers I disagree with you, when my wife and I first started having sex, (with her consent, it has always been with her consent) she would cry, and I asked her if I was hurting her, and she said that she was crying because of the emotions and the fact that she was having multiple O's for the first time, she said that she had never been filled up that much before or had that many O's. Now that we have been married a while, she will still cry once in a while, but it is not because she had been forced into it.