Do we discuss? Yes, but absolutely closest of close friends. Do we want the other guy? Hell, no. My best friend knows Cap is hung like a mule. Do I think she wants him? Hah! I really do LOL here! Actually, it's quite the opposite. She tells me that I have her sympathy for having to live with that "thing" and that she is quite content with average. And knowing her I believe her. Honestly, I'm fine with average (ok, above average please) but like I say "millionaires say money isn't everything." I got it so I'm happy!
My friends and I share a common view that we do not think that Mr. Penis is the prettiest looking thing on god's green earth. Don't get me wrong, we wouldn't dream of living without it, but it's not what gets us out of bed in the morning (sometimes the opposite).