Women: Fit Body or Big Penis?

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Originally posted by amethyst@Jun 18 2005, 01:12 PM
Fit and in shape is different than bodybuilding...don't get me wrong, a few muscles are nice looking on a guy (I've never liked huge muscles...), but fit and in shape means there is not volumes of extra weight, and you can do activities (golf, run, ride, hike, etc.) without dying after the first 5 minutes.

In other words, a huge cock is not going to make up for rolls and huffing and puffing. Now, understand, I am not saying everyone has to be in perfect shape, or that there is anything wrong with some extra weight....I'm just answering the question that was posed...WHICH DO YOU PREFER? Fit and in shape is a way of life, and an attitude. A big dick is the luck of the draw, and is no indication of personality, attitude, or skill in the bedroom!

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Ditto!

I admit that personality and related matters to me at least 2:1 over any physical attributes. But, as far as physical goes, I'd love it if my partner was in good general health and at least reasonably fit and active; many people I know who are fit and active may not seem that way on first glance, either. Having an "average" build is okay, whether a little underweight or a little overweight, so long as they are fit. Looking hot or being well hung are low priorities for me, but are just extra icing, but not the cake.
 
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ravenously: There seems to be a lot of people talking about extremes here. Just how flabby is flabby?
 

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To be honest, for me, cock size never enters into the picture. I'm no size queen, never have been. I can appreciate a big dick, but for me it's like saying "do you prefer blue eyes or brown eyes?". It's all good... Small, large, and everything in between.
(Perhaps my answers are a bit off because I can have a good time with someone who doesn't have a penis at all...)

As for being in shape... Fuck. I guess I find a lot of different things attractive there, too. I have, in the past, been attracted to almost exclusively tall, thin guys, but I've come to find there are a lot of other things that are more important than bodystyle. Like, the way they dress, the way they carry themselves, the way they speak, how hot their face is, their hair, etc.

I guess, to actually answer the question, while "fitness" isn't neccesarily important to me, I look at a guy's body WAY more than his dick.
 
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petite_asianbabe: Genes are a big part of determining a person's body type/size, but diet and exercise play a big role too. Its not attractive when a guy can't take care of himself by eating healthy, exercising, grooming, etc. How a man (or woman for that matter) presents themselves to the world speaks volumes about how much pride they take in themselves.

As for 'how flabby is too flabby', I think its a no-no if a guy has man-boobs or his waist size is larger than his inseam length. I prefer toned guys, not too big and not too small. I'm actually really turned off by those macho body-builders (muscleheads).

So I'd still take a fit body over a big one anyday!
 

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Originally posted by ItsJustMe+Jun 18 2005, 01:31 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(ItsJustMe &#064; Jun 18 2005, 01:31 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-TexAssgirl@Jun 17 2005, 08:53 PM
Fit body&#33;  Ron Jeremy may be hung, but there&#39;s no way I&#39;d fuck that fat bastard.  Ew&#33;
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That about sums it up for me&#33;
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Quite honestly and being hetero, I can&#39;t possibly understand the women who RJ fucks attraction to him. I mean the guy looks like what happenedthe exact moment man evolved from ape. Yes jonb, I know, except primates have a smaller dick than man.
 

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Yeah, there&#39;s a difference between not being perfectly fit and being a total pig. He&#39;s just completely gross and for someone who makes their living as a porn star, there&#39;s just no good excuse for that. If all I had to do all day was make the occasional movie and try not to eat like a hog, I&#39;m sure I&#39;d manage. A woman would never get away with letting herself go like that.
 

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Originally posted by MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK@Jun 21 2005, 03:43 AM
Quite honestly and being hetero, I can&#39;t possibly understand the women who RJ fucks attraction to him. I mean the guy looks like what happenedthe exact moment man evolved from ape. Yes jonb, I know, except primates have a smaller dick than man.
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Minus points for not using the qualifier "other primates".
 

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Skinny guys are the best&#33; I mean heroin-addict skinny too. Something about that particular body type drives me insane. I can appreciate good looks of a lot of different kinds, but skinny guys fill my fantasies.
 

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Originally posted by ravenously@Jun 19 2005, 10:31 AM
There seems to be a lot of people talking about extremes here. Just how flabby is flabby?
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That depends on the person&#39;s body shape&#33; Some people get very soft when they gain weight, some people are stocky. The same goes for being thin. Some people look lean, some look scrawny. I think each person kind of knows when they have crossed that limit for their own personal body type and nature of gaining weight...whether that weight is up or down.

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Originally posted by madame_zora@Jun 21 2005, 11:22 PM
Skinny guys are the best&#33; I mean heroin-addict skinny too. Something about that particular body type drives me insane. I can appreciate good looks of a lot of different kinds, but skinny guys fill my fantasies.
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Does that put me off your hit list?

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Originally posted by madame_zora@Jun 22 2005, 06:22 AM
Skinny guys are the best&#33; I mean heroin-addict skinny too. Something about that particular body type drives me insane. I can appreciate good looks of a lot of different kinds, but skinny guys fill my fantasies.
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Im quite a skinny guy myself. Check my gallery you can sorta tell.
 

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Originally posted by JohnRentino+Jun 22 2005, 07:48 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(JohnRentino &#064; Jun 22 2005, 07:48 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-madame_zora@Jun 22 2005, 06:22 AM
Skinny guys are the best&#33; I mean heroin-addict skinny too. Something about that particular body type drives me insane. I can appreciate good looks of a lot of different kinds, but skinny guys fill my fantasies.
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Im quite a skinny guy myself. Check my gallery you can sorta tell.
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Nice looking dick, John&#33;

Bruce, I don&#39;t date guys from here anyway so it&#39;s no loss, but I can still appreciate a good looking guy who is more muscular, and you are a cutie.
 

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Originally posted by Irish@Jun 23 2005, 03:39 AM
Nice to hear skinny isn&#39;t totally out. ^^
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You&#39;d probably be surprised how many girls are into it, especially since the invasion of the pale skinny guys singing emo songs. Your time has come&#33;
 

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Skinny is one thing, but 6&#39;3" 130 lbs.? My sister&#39;s 130 lbs. and 5&#39;7" and she&#39;s pretty thin. I can&#39;t imagine her being 6&#39;3" and being the same weight.
 

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Well, this thread sure has motivated me to go to the gym with my wife. :lol: I&#39;m not fat, but age is starting to do its thing and I should go to the gym to stay more fit. If it helps me look better for her, then it is worth it.

I was listening to a radio program and they were talking about healthy lifestyles and the interviewer asked this doctor about a good way to motivate someone to go to the gym and start changing their lifestyle. He had a really interesting reply. He said the most people won&#39;t do it for themselves. He said that the biggest motivator was to show people how they are rolemodels for their children or families. When people saw it in that context, they realized how important it is to stay fit and healthy. I had never thought about it in that way before.
 

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Originally posted by madame_zora+Jun 23 2005, 04:55 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(madame_zora &#064; Jun 23 2005, 04:55 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-Irish@Jun 23 2005, 03:39 AM
Nice to hear skinny isn&#39;t totally out. ^^
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You&#39;d probably be surprised how many girls are into it, especially since the invasion of the pale skinny guys singing emo songs. Your time has come&#33;
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Yes Skinny, Muscular, and Huge cock are good but none are required. From what I know girls look at personality the most.

My cock is a little more than 10 inches & 6.5 inches around and I am also fairly skinny, but I am also asian so girls don&#39;t date me expecting a huge cock. I am also not one of those guys that flaunt or let everyone know how big I am. Most girls look at me for my personality, the size of my cock is just a bonus for them (I also love the look of suprise on thier face when they see a asian with a big dick).

Muscles, Big cocks, Lots of Money, are all just bonus&#39;s that are pleasant, but not planned on and certianly not a requirement..
 

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Originally posted by madame_zora@Jun 23 2005, 03:55 AM
You&#39;d probably be surprised how many girls are into it, especially since the invasion of the pale skinny guys singing emo songs. Your time has come&#33;
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Skinny, yes. Pale, no. And I am NOT wearing a flock of seagulls.
 

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First, if I am not attracted to the guy there is NO way I am ever going to consider sleeping with him, even if he has a 10 incher. Of course, I am curious, so I might ask to see it - just to verify if what he is saying is true. :)

I am a physical person. Traditionally, I have dated only jocks... those guys who tend to be more muscular and have that bad boy persona. However, I have also been extremely attracted to smaller, thin men. Again, it is all about interpretation and what you are looking for.

Now, with that said... why do we have to choose so much??? :p