we never love it, we never hate it. explain? well it's the only conclusion i could come to which would account for some of the posts i read. two statements, 1, women only have sex all the time to get a guy hooked, and then they all stop putting out, stop giving BJs & allowing anal, or only agree to these things in order to get something in return. ...if we loved sex, if we actually had our own sex drives, then we would be hurting ourselves by stopping, we would want the sex to continue, therefore we must not actually want sex. ...of course this means we were faking it all along. 2, women stop having sex out of selfishness and spite. ...if we ever hated the idea of having sex, felt uncomfortable, traumatised, were in pain, tired, not turned on, just feeling unsexy, then we would have reasonable justification for declining sex. we must therefore have no feelings about sex either way. i know. i'm a genius.