Women: Have you ever bailed on a small cock?

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  1. Standard Deviant

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    I'm interested in hearing women's experiences with stopping halfway into having sex with someone once you discovered that his cock was smaller than you felt you needed for it to be worth having sex with him?

    I had this experience when I was 22 and 30 years later I still haven't really gotten over it. Processing the experience has been one of the most traumatic yet fascinating mental adventures of my lifetime!

    At about age 19, I once began to "get down" with a woman who, once her shirt was off, turned out to have no breasts whatsoever. She was flat as a board. Although I was totally unable to feel turned on by her body because of this, I at least used my hand to help her have a good time, and was careful and sensitive enough not to cause her to feel rejected. We remained friends for years and I even posed nude for her when she was taking a photography class at our university. I felt that once you start having sex with someone, even if you turn out to be disappointed by their body once you are in the nude, you should at least be kind if not passionate!

    But two years later, I had a relationship with a woman who after a few months of living together suddenly announced she was going back to her old boyfriend because he was hung bigger than me. I wasn't small--7.5 inches and proportionately wide/thick--but she remembered him being bigger. Abouth 9 months later (after two more bf's--one who she told me was "shockingly" thick) she was back, wanting to get back together with me. She travelled halfway across the country to be with me. We did a lot of necking and petting for several days before I finally felt ready to try to be with her again sexually. When we made out, and got naked, within seconds she was sitting up on the edge of the bed putting her clothes back on. When I asked her, "Huh? What are you doing???" she replied with great disappointment: "You used to be so HUGE!"

    I hadn't even had a chance to get a full erection yet, and yes, I stay pretty small until I get fully erect, which takes a couple of minutes... definitely a "grower," not a "shower." But I couldn't believe how rude she was! And it affected me forever. At the same time... it was kind of exciting!

    It's kind of the equivalent of "pointing and laughing." But painful for a young dude.

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  2. TheRob

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    sounds like that girl was not only a slut but also had some type of mental problem
     
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    I agree with Rob, 7.5 inches is a good size, very good to be honest. She sounds like a head case, or someone who just wanted to hurt your feelings.
     
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    Well...I've often wondered about that, too, but it isn't that simple. I sometimes think she was trying to tease the shit out of me. At first I just dismissed her as a sicko, but... later I thought back to many cues that she was trying to play me into a hotter scenario. If I had been aware of swinging or cuckolding, I might have interpreted her behavior differently.
     
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    Ive never bailed out during sex but after a drunken grope and finding very little lurking in his pants i did decide we were probably going to be better 'friends". Shallow i know but it was only a drunken pub encounter, nothing serious
     
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    It does sound as if you are not the problem. Traveling half way across a continent to have sex with someone and tell them they're "not big" before events start up sounds like someone... insensitive? Impatient? Backing out of the set up?
     
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    Sounds like something mental on her part to me......Like maybe bipolar and not taking her meds.

    Sounds like she is always thinking about the one that got away when she is with someone. If this is a pattern, she will probably be back.

    I would reccomend not getting involved with someone that shows mental instability.
     
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    And no I haven't ever bailed on a small cock
     
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    "You are so gracious for being so patient" -- which is what my secretary always said managing the phones in my office at U.T.

    As an aside, does Hippie Hollow still exist? I heard it was now closed, surrounded by housing developments. I'd love to know that it is still a place where the old Austin still lingers. By old Austin I mean the sense of comfort and ease that was so common before they tore down the International Armadillo center, created 20 new beltways that circle the city (exaggeration, I know) and tore down all that was good in and about 6th Street and lined Congress with big glass and steel towers.

    Still, you are a gracious and patient woman for having never kicking a small dick out of bed. You deserve a Shiner Bock and bless your heart.:smile:
     
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    Just went out there today....so yes it does still exist. It was a beautiful day and there was quite a regular crowd. I took a neighbor lady friend that I met at my neighborhood Bunko. She is from the UK originally and she loved it. We had a good time talking and chatting and drinking Berringer White Zinfadel in little plastic bottles in koozies. The state and couty parks did pass a law a few years back that all drinks have to be in a koozie or covered up. I don't know what is up with that stupid law. I was lucky that some of the regulars bring extra koozies and they share. I always forget koozies. But I usually share my Zinfadels with people that let me borrow their koozies.
     
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    that was just cruel and tasteless.... I mean from the way its sounds she doesn't have much to offer in the tit department, so who the fuck is she to be saying anything about your semi-hard cock! what a bitch!
     
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    she is fuckin' with your head man!
    i think alot of girls feel empowered when they "emasculate" a man.
    there was a dud i know who had a genuine 9.5 inch cock.
    he messed around with a girl from work and when he undressed
    she said "i thought you were supposed to be "big"
    he was huge...he would whip it out at house parties whilst rolling.
    when he was fluffed his cock looked chunky.

    she denied him.
    i personally think she wanted to emascualte him
    because she couldn't fuck him.
    so rather than admitting she was physically incapable
    she cut him down and didn't have to get impaled.lol.
    and in the end she comes off as the "big" girl.

    it is a crock and a big mindgame.
     
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    A) The small titted girl was his example of how to handle a situation of opening a big box with a little present inside 2) this is my example on how one could have handled the other girl, you know, if one was a misogynist.
     
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    I had a girl ball on me, but very nice. I am not big at all. She was a co-worker who used to sit in front of me at work. She was a total tease, use to flash me her pussy when she would go with a mini skirt and no underwear just for that. In the lunch room used to flash me her tits just to get a reaction. Anyway, we would talk a lot about sex, she used to tell me how I must have a big, fat cock. She said that I look like the type to have a huge dick (whatever that type is). I told her it was far from it, not big, not fat. She never believed me. She was a total size queen, used to tell me how a dick had to be huge to satisfy her, her ex boyfriend had a 10.5 dick, she showed me countless pictures of him and yep, the man was huge.

    Anyway, one day she asked me to go to her house to help her with a computer. Once there of course she flashed me her tits, since we were not at work, I was not scared of getting caught, I touched them, etc, etc.

    She asked me to masturbate in front of her, which I did, but she didn't do anything, just stand there and watch me.

    After that, she cooled off. We never fooled around again, she never flashed me again. One day I told her it was because of my size and she said no. I knew that was the reason but she was nice about it, I think. She would tell me I am not small, I am just average. Well, for a size queen avarage equals small. She liked them 9 and up.

    She used to tell me stories about her past lovers, 11, 10, all in the double digits range.

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    What are you'll talking about now?
     
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    sorry i call bullshit on this story... some guys let their fantasy run wild... this is yet another example.. a girl left you because your dick was 1 1/2 inches shorter than the other guys? GET REAL..
     
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    Sounds like crap to me. I would never do something like that. If you're already to the bed there must have been something else you found attractive about the person besides their dick size. Of course there are a lot of cunts out there.
    Sounds like your size is fine, choice of partners, questionable.
     
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    Haha, so true!!
     
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    Thanks for these thoughts. Yes, you who said she was a "head case" were right, of course. And I knew it at the time. But she was such and INTERESTING head case, and brought up so many questions about my own feelings in me that I've never "found closure" for the experience. I would say it has even damaged my 30-year marriage to a wonderful, well-balanced, true love to some extent. I always wondered to what extent the woman who bailed on me that day was doing it INTENTIONALLY to just fuck with my mind (and why!) or if she was just being honest. (Tactless, but honest.) The effect it had on me a few hours later was to convince me that huge cock size was much more exciting and powerful than I had ever imagined before. I quickly sublimated the experience, using it as jackoff fodder rather than letting it wipe out my self-confidence. But I've always wished I could understand it much better.
     
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    Whats really rediculous is all that 9 and up shit she likes! Girth is what matters anyway. What good is a long dick if its thin? Im sure most women will agree! You should of pulled out a coke can and shove it up her and she how she liked it!:biggrin1:
     
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