Women, have you ever left (or chose to be with) a man solely for his penis size?

[AlteredEgo]

Damn it hilaire... I know I am. I'm beginning to loathe myself for feeling jealous, turned off sexually (fueled by the jealousy) and just plain ole' insecure.

submissive83, believe me, had it been that simple I would have moved on...but I actually love this gal, and if anything I feel pathetic, but I can't help how this makes me feel. For feeling like that, I am to blame, but she too isnt blameless, because she has given me so many contradictory answers to my simple inquiries that I have lost faith in getting a sincere, clear cut answer from her and have kept this insecurity and feelings of betrayal to myself now, and it will affect our sex lives if I dont do anything about it.

I really need help and reassurance, and its really tragic that I can no longer go to my woman for it.

The problem is, you asked questions you should not have asked, and read correspondence you should not have read. That is weak. Your response to it is indeed both lame and immature.

The very answer she gave you, had already occurred to me before I got as far as reading that she gave it. What exactly do you expect her to say to her friends after the way she went on about the past guy?

I get it. You don't want to feel like you've been settled for. You fucked up big time reading that old stuff. You're lucky she still wants a piece of cock off of you after that. Maybe she is sticking around largely because your cock is a good size, nice shape, and skillfully applied. I know that would be the reason to keep you around for me. This childishness would have turned me off of your personality were I in her position.

PS: Why doesn't anyone else think this guy's a creep for reading the correspondence? She didn't know how to delete it. He does know, and so he should have done so without minding her business instead of his own! Look what it got him!

 

[Empathizer]

A gorgeous ass, great tits, a washboard stomach, etc are mostly cosmetic. When someone's got something special going on between their legs. and it's damned near irreplaceable (or so I thought at the time), it's only in hindsight do you realize the great, ridiculous extent to which you'd go to keep it. My ex had this magical almost goddess-like vagina. Google the word Pompoir and you'll have an idea. I went through miserable hell for a year to keep that woman for that one reason.

One of the biggest mistakes of my life.

I think that somewhat correlates with the OP's question from a (straight) guy's perspective. The great thing about "Pompoir" is that it is a skill any woman can learn.

I can do that!

I thought every woman could do that

I can make her walls touch each other like a closing moonflower.

Only wavy. So not like a moonflower.

 

[RawDog]

I can do that!

I thought every woman could do that

I can make her walls touch each other like a closing moonflower.

Only wavy. So not like a moonflower.

Were we married about 6 years ago? If not, would you like to be my future ex-wife? :biggrin1:

Seriously, no one's ever mentioned this talent to you? You need to chime in and be heard here:

http://www.lpsg.org/173656-milking-the-penis-with-the.html

...just my most favorite thread EVER!!

 

[cmk71]

I am with "petite". Just because you have a large penis does not mean your good in bed by automatically.

 

[helgaleena]

I'm a big dick :tongue:

Yes you are, which is why you are here no doubt. Ah, affirmation...

 

[D_Tallie_Wacker]

When we broke up for a bit while we were dating, my wife had a larger boyfriend that she apparently stayed with at least a couple weeks longer than she knew she should have, when she knew there was no future in the relationship, solely because of his size and how good the sex stuff was, before we ended up getting back together.

Also, my best friend, who is also the hottest chick from my old high school, was complaining about an ex-boyfriend who irritated her to no end, who was cheap, rude, lazy, living off his parents, well below her on the looks scale (a whole list of shit...) and she then admitted she stuck it out with him as long as she did because he was so big he was like a tripod and his dick was "amazing to look at."

That's about when I was like, these chicks who sometimes claim size doesn't matter are total fucking liars.

 

[Drifterwood]

That's about when I was like, these chicks who sometimes claim size doesn't matter are total fucking liars.

I think you've got this one wrong.

When it matters it matters, when it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter. For most women, when it doesn't matter, matters more.

 

[petite]

I can do that!

I thought every woman could do that

I can make her walls touch each other like a closing moonflower.

Only wavy. So not like a moonflower.

Ha, I'm so late on replying to this... That's exactly what I thought. There were some reactions that in hindsight make more sense, but really, a little feedback would have been great. TheBF told me that he assumed I already knew which is why he didn't mention it. I suppose the others could have thought the same thing, but they were wrong. I would have put more effort into using it to please if only someone had told me, so it's their loss!

 

[B_chinagirl4u2]

Please share your experiences, I want to gauge how unique my current situation is (which I promise to expand on once a few of you share yours). Thanks

yes, I have chosen to be with men based solely on their penis size, but I always go home with my hubby. :smile:

 

[B_Nia88]

A man is so much more than his penis so no never.

 

[1Cody]

I have 2 female cousins that tell me everything, my step-daughter tells me quite a bit too. My one cousin has no modesty or shame, whatever he current dilemma is she will share it with everyone. She was so enthralled by one guy that she claimed was hung like a horse. One of her friends stole him, probably because she was advertising it. Anyhow, she decided to take that girl's ex-boyfriend. We all got to hear how he wasn't as big. The new BF had some looks and a different personality, he was more easy-going. My cousin eventually grew very fond of him and even had a child with him. After she was with him for a time, she commented that she had gotten used to him. My other cousin told me that her man hangs to his knees, she has a lot of conflict with him and never seems to have a permanent break up. Yes, they do have a child together. My zany step-daughter was drunk and told her bf that he had, "a little dick couldn't satisfy her." Then she tells him that she told me! The poor guy calls me up and the first words out of his mouth was, "you know I have 3 kids." I was so embarassed for him and I tried to be supportive. I didn't want to deny that I knew what he was talking about or that it was a big deal. It really wasn't a big deal. Her shameless, crude, cruel drunken behaviour and then wanting to justify it when she sobered up was a bigger deal to me. Previously, she commented that she only married her first husband for his dick. Another time she commented that she was only with a bf because he was hung. She hooked up with one of my younger friends once and tells me in front of him that he is only this big and shows me with her thumb and forefinger, and says, "but he is fine." meaning his looks. So, my conclusion is that yes this happens.

 

[HorsemanUK]

My most recent ex (Broke up about 2 months ago) broke up with me for unknown reasons at first. She then more recently admitted that she was actually rebounding from a previous realtionship and when she got with me she just wanted to get fucked by the biggest dick she could find for awhile.