Women honest about bigger experiences?

[hungluso]

I had a girl I was dating just recently tell me I was huge.
Well, when she first told me It was the second time after we had sex and we were talking about her "big parts" and I kinda joked about mine, where she immediately talked about how "shocked" she was when I first penetrated her. I asked her why, and she just said because "You are huge!" I laughed and said, come on, Im just above average, not huge, there are bigger out there!
I really found it hard to believe because she was an attractive woman, with large breasts she liked to show off and guys would always hit on her. She always went for the big burly men, making me scrawny in comparison at 6', 170lbs. My cock is only 8" by 6". She had 12 other partners before me, so I figured the odds were against me. I dont know if I can believe what she is telling me, or if she is just being nice!
I have known women with much less partners who have had bigger (be it longer or thicker).
She swore up and down she was being honest. I asked how big was the second biggest and she said "well, no where close. I cant even stick a third of you in my mouth, that has never happened before!"
I found out later that she had bragged about me to a friend at work. They are waitresses so they started calling me a 5 legged table.

What was ironic was that after giving me head, she would ask if it was good, and I would of course say hell yeah (it was good, not fantastic) and she would ask if it was the best she ever had!!
Of course I lied, and said "Hell yeah, that was good shit!" She then replied "Good, I just want to hear that I am the best!"

 

[rope9839]

If she has had "only "12 partners and you are a legitimate 8x6, there is a very good chance she hasn't seen anything bigger. You are bigger than 98 out of 100 guys. YOu are corect that there are some monsters out there. It is also correct that some people buck the odds and encounter one or more of them in a pretty limited sample. Generally, you are going to find most partners pretty impressed with your size.

 

[13788]

littlefiveandhalf: I have asked women, and find it frustrating that many women lie about this question.

First, if I was their biggest or if they truly liked my size, I could never know if they were being truthful because so many women lie like that.

Also, if a woman told me about her previous lover being bigger, I honestly wouldn't mind. It might even be a turn on hearing her honestly talking about her experiences and pleasure.

I think many women are hypocritical about this question, since they 1) claim that size doesn't matter but if it didn't matter than why not calmly answer the question. 2) there are endless penis jokes, references in the culture, media, tv, movies ... but people get all uptight to talk honestly about it with someone who matters, ie. your partner.

 

[lapdog2001]

The topic of size has always first been brought up by the women I've been with, usually upon seeing me at full attention. (See the thread about 1st impressions, or whatever it was.) When a woman says "You're huge", my response is "Really?".

A few of my past girlfriends have been, how should I put it, "sexually experienced" and have seen a statistically relevant (>40) number of "samples" so when they tell me I'm on the upper end of the scale, I have no reason not to believe them. When we've discussed the size of former partners, it was just part of conversation, I wasn't looking for validation. The only validation I needed was she was involved with me, enjoying me, and was no longer with the guys from her past.

LapDog

 

[GottaBigOne]

I never ask that question. Since I know the percentages, i always assume until they correct me. usually they are the ones to say if it is.

 

[13788]

palladen: I have to agree with CarolinaC and Gotta on this one: bad question to prompt. Wait for their input ... it's much tastier that way

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[hungluso]

I agree with Palladen. When they bring it up after they bring it up (get the pun?) it sounds much sweeter!
I guess that is what had me in disbelief with the last girl i dated since she didnt need prompting in letting me know I was the biggest she had seen thus far. I was just floored. i would always have to ask.

 

[joeblow1977]

My Girlfriend asked me a most peculiar question though when foddling me:What do you think of your dick size?I though it was very strange.I'm one of those growers.My flaccid size can be anywhere from 2-4 inches,and I grow to 7 inches maximum.

I've always suspected she may have been implying that I was small,at least for her.The reason I say this is because the first few times we had sex,she took me in easily with a large amount of room left.I neither came anywhere near 'bottoming her' out nor could I feel much of her inner walls.So sex wasn't that good in the beginning for neither of us because of lack of friction.As time passed,I 'fitted' her much better.I wondor if she may have had a much larger guy right before me,which caused her to expand,but eventually 'shrink'back to her previous size.Her question and the physical exidence could suggest this was the case.

 

[13788]

PenileEnvy: I asked my wife this question about a year after we started having sex, knowing that her only other sex partner was probably bigger than me judging from her reactions. (I'm 5.5)

Her reply was, "You're the perfect size for me. I only came once with him in 2 years and I have only failed to come once with you in a year."

I never asked or worried about it again.

 

[smoothbore]

I posted here a while ago about a similar question..

I divorced my wife several years ago..and during the final years of our marriage, she told me flat out that I was too small for her, but she thought I'd make a good "family man" and that's why she settled with me. He previous boyfriend was large..she never told me how big, only that he was big. I'm about 6 1/4" long and 5" in circumference.

Then, a few months ago, I fell head-over-heals in love with this beautiful woman I met. Our relationship was awesome and the sex was incredible. Of course, the whole size thing was still on my mind. When I finally asked my new girlfriend about her previous partners, she asked me if I really wanted to know. Of course, I told her I did... Her ex-husband of ten years was, as she put it, "huge" and of the partners she'd had since her divorce, there was one other guy smaller than me. This of course, hit me hard and I seriously thought about ending the relationship...thinking all along about what my ex-wife had told me.

Well, it's almost a year into our relationship and she's convinced me without a doubt that I have nothing to worry about. As she puts it, I fit her perfectly. She told me that she often dreaded sex with her ex, as he made her sore for days afterward and in ten years she had actually reached orgasm only a few times. When we have sex however, she orgasms at least four or five times, everytime! We have been together almost a year and we still have sex at least four times a week...she is constantly teasing and playing with me..and makes me feel like I'm the "King" when we head to the bedroom...

So, I no longer worry about her leaving for a larger penis and I am confident that I do in fact fit her perfectly...and I have to admit that the confidence has certainly helped me out in the bedroom.. I even bought her a realistic looking vibrator that's pretty large (about 8") and we have some fun with that, but when it's all said and done, she always comes back to me!

It really sucks when a woman uses something like this negatively to hurt a man..but in the long run, I'm glad my new girl was open with me...because it's really helped us out and made me feel better about myself...

...that's my two cents..

 

[thirdlegmeat]

SPL: You have a lot to learn, buddy. 8" X 6" is huge. It doesn't matter how hot the girl is, or how "scrawny" you are (I resent this comment by-the-way, as I'm 6' and 175lbs and I bench 275), but anyway...huge is huge.

I think that I perhaps know this b/c of my extensive sexual experience. I've said it before, and I'll say it again, but a legitimate 8" really is huge. I'm in the 8.5"-9" range, and I've had many partners, and no woman I know of has had bigger than me. I'm not saying that it's not possible one has, but I would be surprised. And I've been with all kinds of women of all backgrounds, ethnicities, etc.

It's like I said in the last post: Any girl who even attempts to say she's seen a penis the size of a manufactured 12" dildo is a freakin' liar, and also an attention whore. "BigJoe" was right (was that his name...I forget). Anyway, they don't make real-life penises in this size. To give some perspective, imagine the average arm is 3-4 feet long. Now double that. An 8 foot long arm. When's the last time you saw that? Or, imagine an average man's height...let's say 5'10". When's the last time you saw an 11'8" tall man. They DONT exist! But suddenly, with the ever-elusive penis, we see figures that are double the norm. This is not reality. And indeed, science suggests these proportions are hyperboles at best, and lies mostly. Isn't it funny that the "facts" women--and men--talk about are non-falsifiable. In science, and in common-sense, these assertions are dismissed.

There is currently, on HBO, a documentary about XXX stars. It portrays the most famous porn-stars, both women and men. Two of the portrayed men are Sean Michaels and Lexington Steele. Both are said to be huge. While, on this documentary, while both are obviously large, neither looks to be in the double-digits. The men even act awkward, and if I had to guess, I think that this would be the reason why. In porn, everything is designed to exaggerate proportion. But in the documentary, it's standard "mug" shots. The camera doesn't lie.

 

[big_peter]

Guys being curious about size is like a woman asking
"does this make me look fat?"

Talk about loaded question! Avoid it!

I find it more rewarding to ask about her more satisfying fantasies - that way we can do something we can share... OK, maybe she did it (wants to do it) in an unusual place, and we can do something about that... size is fixed... leave the subject alone.

(Yes, my woman has had larger... and I'm not near average)

 

[jonb]

Yeah, it's about the only loaded question guys ask. Oh, strike that: Straight guys will ask gay guys if they have a crush on the speaker. But it's the only one we ask women.

 

[Knight]

Well I've been wondering whether to ask my gf if she's been with anyone bigger than me, but since she's only been with one guy the chances are slim. So then if he were bigger, that might be a blow lol. Anyways I decided I'm gonna leave it up to her, I reckon she'll tell me what she thinks of the size herself, in the throes of passion and such hehe. She already tells me its big which is nice to hear

So I dont know about women being honest but they'll always be generous and considerate either way (unless theyre bitter and twisted or something), letting you know they like your size or not making it so obvious she's had bigger. If you directly ask her that question though, she's got to be honest and it could be brutal. Leaving things open it can always be playful and suggestive but never certain, which can be a good thing. Leave it up to the woman I say

 

[Pene_Negro_Grande]

Knight - don't think you should be worrying about your gf previous lover size...Don't think she will have a problem w/your equipment...

But something I have noticed and wanted to comment about is some of the posts - like do smaller guys envy or are jealous of your large endowment and so on...And I think some guy said he thinks smaller guys are more subconscience or have penis envy or something...To me personally the above average seem to be more subconscience than the average and below...Some come cross as very cocky and that your girlfriend will leave you for them...

Like I said before - those thoughts never crossed my mind and I don't have a problem w/my average size...That is what I liked about surferboy and txquis...They have both mentioned several times that they are average and think they said they are pretty happy w/the endowments and I think surferboy did say he would not change a thing...I thought that was pretty positive and I feel the same way...And there are a lot of teen guy who are above average and question themselve because of some of the comments...

But hell - this the Large Penis Support Group...And there are some large penises on here w/issues and probably in need of support...You guys rock...

 

[Standard Deviant]

Originally posted by madame_zora@Feb 12 2005, 09:26 PM
Actually, men want us to lie to them about this. We have no chance of answering this question right, except to lie, and wouldn't you know, it's almost never the guy with 9" who asks. I wish men would stop asking questions they don't want to hear the answer to. I hate lying, so I don't.

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This is an unfair generalization. I don't know how many men want to hear the truth, but I am one who always has. I've been monogamous for decades, but one reason I was able to become so close to my wife was because she was so honest and willing to talk about all her feelings about this topic and let me tell her about mine. It was something I needed to deal with and she and I shared our experiences as part of that process. Partners I was with who insisted on keeping past experiences a secret were the ones I couldn't feel close to.

 

[hungthick]

Here is a perspective from a turly bi-sexual male.

I lie all the time when i am with a guy that is small. I pretend to gag on his cock and i tell him he is quite large--i do it because WHY NOT? I dont care if someone tells me i am large or not---many times i tell people my cock is shrinking anyway (i think it is, is that possible--oh, new thread).

With women, i never bring up my size or the size question about other guys. I think most women would like to make 'their man' feel good anyway. What i find interesting is when a couple splits on a bad note and the girl tells everyone that the guy has a small cock (then i believe it). If they split and that comes up but the guy laughs it off, then i know it isnt true.

my 2cents, did any of that make sense?

 

[madame_zora]

Hungthick, that made perfect sense, and I agree with you. If I'm just in it for sex, I'll say whatever I feel the mood calls for, but it often seems like it's an average size guy demanding to hear that he's the biggest I've ever seen, and is being snotty about it. I have found that guys who truly are large rarely ask this question, so that's why I find it annoying. Anyone can google on "cock sizes" and learn a fair amount easily, so why is it that we women are put to the task of doing every man's research for him?

Standard Deviant, I think inside the context of a loving relationship, secrecy is a killer. I would never consider having a serious relationship with anyone I couldn't be completely honest with, I am sure your wife felt the security in your relationship was enough of a safety net to tell you about her past lovers. I didn't mean to oversimplify the matter, it just brought up an issue I personally have been presented with that is irritating to me, because there's often no way to answer it satisfactorily.

 

[blar]

Originally posted by madame_zora@Mar 1 2005, 07:05 AM
Hungthick, that made perfect sense, and I agree with you. If I'm just in it for sex, I'll say whatever I feel the mood calls for, but it often seems like it's an average size guy demanding to hear that he's the biggest I've ever seen, and is being snotty about it. I have found that guys who truly are large rarely ask this question, so that's why I find it annoying. Anyone can google on "cock sizes" and learn a fair amount easily, so why is it that we women are put to the task of doing every man's research for him?

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you may think only average guys ask that but i have heard of and seen many guys who are above average ask the same question the their female partners

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by Ender@Mar 2 2005, 02:10 AM
Ive been with girls that i kow have had bigger, but between the ages of 15-25 most girls havent had enought build up experiances to handle massive ones. I mena a girl who has never had a finger in her cant handle a full on penis. But its true never ask the size question, and never answer it. If u need to ask then your size isnt your problem its your confidence when your nervous sex isnt as good, but if your confident its better, for u and her.

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Thank you!! And this is my exact point. Any man on here would think his partner was a stupid dolt if she asked him if he'd ever been with a girl with bigger breasts than hers (Ha ha&#33. It seems almost every guy I know has a big-breasted babe or two in his past, and we don't agonise over it, so I feel no need whatsoever to have to console some insecure guy over whether I've had larger. Without even looking at them, I can usually safely say "Yes, is that a problem for you?". Guys who are obsessive and overly insecure about their size (whatever it is) are usually awful in bed and I want no part of it.