Women honest about bigger experiences?

[blar]

true

the women i have been with that were insecure with their bodies were not good in bed..... they worried about their bodies too much and asked too many questions while we were in bed... now i know how some women feel when they are with partners that ask "am i your biggest" or "have you had bigger".

its a pitty that some people think they have to be "perfect" in order to please a partner

 

[madame_zora]

Yay for Blar! Yes, insecurity zaps the fun out of everything in sex. I know this because I used to do it myself (as I'm sure most of us do at some point), until I finally figured out that normal people everywhere have sex, not just supermodels. Now I find a lot more kinds of people interesting looking and worry far less about my appearance and concentrate a little more on my performance.

 

[13788]

XXLHS: Personally I think that women are due their time in the sun to enjoy the aspects of wanting men to follow in the same realm as women... I don't doubt that sometime soon women will be checking out augmented men that rival the biggest naturals and well beyond... then it shall become rather like this...

T-shirts "I wish my bulge was a brain!"
Contests "Wet underwear contests on MTV"
Information "Is the bulge real or fake?"
Question "So where did you get yours done"
Comments "That's the work of a great doctor"
General "Honey look there is a newer set of implants and injections, can you get the string implants that keep you balls and cock growing and growing...?"
Finally "There is a male version of chelsea charms..."

All in all, Women demand your man or men in general make it huge if that's what you want, and don't settle for less... it's only fair!!!

 

[naughty]

Welcome back, XXHLS!

Very funny thoughts, but dont you think this is just perpetuating the pressure placed on men and women to conform to some one else's fantasy to the possible detriment of their own health?


Naughty

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by XXLHS@Mar 4 2005, 02:33 PM
Personally I think that women are due their time in the sun to enjoy the aspects of wanting men to follow in the same realm as women... I don't doubt that sometime soon women will be checking out augmented men that rival the biggest naturals and well beyond... then it shall become rather like this...

T-shirts "I wish my bulge was a brain!"
Contests "Wet underwear contests on MTV"
Information "Is the bulge real or fake?"
Question "So where did you get yours done"
Comments "That's the work of a great doctor"
General "Honey look there is a newer set of implants and injections, can you get the string implants that keep you balls and cock growing and growing...?"
Finally "There is a male version of chelsea charms..."

All in all, Women demand your man or men in general make it huge if that's what you want, and don't settle for less... it's only fair!!!

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I can't believe I missed this one, XXLHS, where have you been?


Naughty, I took his response to be somewhat tongue-in-cheek, but it's a point I've made several times myself. Women have always been on the chopping block physically. Men have no problem dissecting our every feature and making us feel inadequate in a multitude of ways (too fat, breasts too small, wrong hair color, big nose) to the point that many of us run to the cosmetic surgeon to make ourselves more acceptable. Meanwhile, back at the ranch, they have far fewer expectations of themselves and are in fact aghast that anyone should ever consider their penis size!
While I don't like the thought of the onslaught of emotional issues for men that this will produce, I do like the fact that (eventually) they may become more understanding of how awful it is to feel forced into being something you're not.

Also, I know a good many women who love their breast implants, and are overjoyed to have them, as well as some who just got them because they hated themselves before. It will be interesting to see this run the gamut through the male population as well, if enlargements do become a feasible option.

 

[Altairion]

If enlargements become and option for guys, I wouldn't even know how to think about it. Of course I have been lucky with what I have been given, so my view is on the opposite side of the fence in that respect.

However, things are coming full circle on us guys towards being crammed into a socially acceptable image. More and more the image of a confident muscle toting male is becoming the norm for our culture. Since I don't fit into that mold myself, I am feeling the pressure in a sense to work towards that level.

Overall though, I think it is fair for women to judge men on their equipment. However it just shouldn't be the only measure of a man.

 

[madame_zora]

Oh sure, and neither should breast size for women. I'll never have any surgery done, no face lifts, nose jobs or whatever, but I certainly see how some women feel inferior if they don't.

Also, for a lot of you "skinny hung guys", be well aware that there are plenty of women who love your body just the way it is! I get to talk to a lot of strippers, who are generally pretty open about discussing their sex lives, and the subject of this particular body type has come up on more than a few occasions!

 

[someone2004uk]

Originally posted by Altairion@Mar 20 2005, 10:51 PM
...However, things are coming full circle on us guys towards being crammed into a socially acceptable image.

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Funny that i should come across this today, Earlier this evening I saw an anti-wrinkle ad, nothing out of the usual i hear you say, but in this case it was anti-wrinkle cream for men.

I don't think i have ever known a man to be worried about wrinkles, they aren't the average target audience for cosmetic surgery. It seem that it's now men's turn to be bomarded with an unreachable ideal.

Obviously some marketing exec, has throught "If we keep on forcing the ideal image on to women, we're going to get a bunch of "hairy feminists" on our back, we've got to make it equal somehow" and decided that the best way to level the playing field was not to cut down on the ideals for women, but to step up the ideals on men.

Honestly, we live in what screwed up world.

 

[ashlar]

http://www.talksurgery.com/consumer/proced...nlargement.html

there you have it ... it's getting closer.

"Can't stop what's coming
Can't stop what is on it's way"

 

[13788]

mr.president:

Originally posted by madame_zora@Mar 20 2005, 10:18 PM

I can't believe I missed this one, XXLHS, where have you been?


Naughty, I took his response to be somewhat tongue-in-cheek, but it's a point I've made several times myself. Women have always been on the chopping block physically. Men have no problem dissecting our every feature and making us feel inadequate in a multitude of ways (too fat, breasts too small, wrong hair color, big nose) to the point that many of us run to the cosmetic surgeon to make ourselves more acceptable. Meanwhile, back at the ranch, they have far fewer expectations of themselves and are in fact aghast that anyone should ever consider their penis size!
While I don't like the thought of the onslaught of emotional issues for men that this will produce, I do like the fact that (eventually) they may become more understanding of how awful it is to feel forced into being something you're not.

Also, I know a good many women who love their breast implants, and are overjoyed to have them, as well as some who just got them because they hated themselves before. It will be interesting to see this run the gamut through the male population as well, if enlargements do become a feasible option.

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heh i think its funny how people blame the opposite gender for liking or making fun of people who have don't have a certain physical attribute. When most of the time its the MEDIA that is the one feeding them those thoughts. We see the ads the pictures the movies we think that’s what we should look like and if you don't look like that then "you should jump off a cliff" or "you will live a lonely life".

In my opinion i think the harshest people are the people of the same gender. It’s always the guys pointing out the others guy’s imperfectness and the girls pointing out other girl’s imperfectness. For example a day after a celeb award show last year (i forgot which one) i was watching "good day live" and guess who was the one making fun of the girls who had a flat chest or looked chubby....... the female hosts not the male.

(btw i am not denying that males don't make fun of females or that females make fun of males)

 

[madame_zora]

Yes, that's a very valid point. It's not "girls against the boys" or vice versa, it's "the media against everyone for fun and profit". The more they make us hate ourselves, the more we buy products to fix ourselves. What a shame we are all such sheep.

 

[Knight]

I'm a ram tyvm (star sign) or tiger if you go Chinese

Anyways my gf 'confessed' her last bf was small or at least a lot smaller than me...well I dunno I'd say 5" maybe 6" at a push. Anyways I said all guys are around that size and she put her sad face and and said "I know" (she pulls the cutest faces). But she has me

I wouldn't go for any surgery, partly because the finances don't allow it in this fiscal year or any forthcoming ones and well I don't think I need it, and don't want it. It would be terrible if something went wrong and...I dunno it'd probably feel like it wasnt a part of me anymore.

 

[jonb]

Well, actually you have eight signs: Sun, ascendant, moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, and Saturn.

Of course, with Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, and all kinda of moons, centaurs, transneptunian objects, meteoroids, comets, and asteroids, astrology kinda debunks itself.

 

[13788]

orionsword57:

Originally posted by madame_zora@Mar 22 2005, 03:12 PM
....The more (the Media) make us hate ourselves, the more we buy products to fix ourselves.

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If you think of it, we live in a Society that claims to be the strongest, fairest and most open in the world, and it is held together (70%+ of GNP due to Consumer purchases) by our sense of not being good enough. A woman I knew once suggested that I keep track of my expenditures on all items over a three month period and to delineate which were for sustenance/just living, vs which were for enhancement of some part of my life, ie... something I was not content with. I quit after 2 weeks because I got the message.

 

[madame_zora]

Get even- shop at thrift stores and buy as much food as possible from local vendors and farms. I'm at the point now where almost everything I need can be found at the Dollar Tree (still a corporate chain, but good god, what a ton of money I save) cleaning supplies, food, cosmetics. A trip to Kroger that would cost me $200 is now less than $50.
Also, I'm lucky I can sew. I can get 2 yards of fabric off the sale rack for $2 and make myself a dress anytime I want one. Eat less meat, it's expensive and takes forever to digest. ANY shampoo will clean your hair! It might not get you a new boyfriend, but you will smell better.

I found that by making some seemingly simple adjustments to my life I am now able to work considerably less. I resent the amount of time I've spent in my life working harder just to feed the machine, that phase of my life is now over!

 

[jonb]

Actually, the "five pounds of undigested meat in your colon" story's an urban legend; for one thing, it should already be fairly digested by the time it gets to your colon, which just absorbs the water to prevent dehydration.

 

[madame_zora]

But meat can take up to two days to fully digest as comapred to only several hours for vegetables and grains. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against eating meat, I just think it's healthier to eat less of it, but then again, it's just my opinion.

 

[jonb]

Hey, at least you're not one of those self-righteous vegans who have this crazy idea that all land is the same, so you're using less land if you eat nothing but grain. (If that's true, I have a Greenlandic pineapple farm to sell you.)

 

[lapdog2001]

Originally posted by jonb@Mar 23 2005, 05:38 PM
Hey, at least you're not one of those self-righteous vegans who have this crazy idea that all land is the same, so you're using less land if you eat nothing but grain. (If that's true, I have a Greenlandic pineapple farm to sell you.)

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Jonb,

Greenland pineapples are the best, they come already chilled! B)

LapDog

 

[13788]

Jim31415: I'll add a few words on this topic. When I was younger I bugged and bugged and bugged and bugged and bugged and bugged and bugged the first woman I slept with to tell me if she'd ever had a guy bigger than me. I was 16 at the time and still hadn't hit full size but I was already in the 9+x5+ range and knew that was big. But she was five years older than me and had a lot of lovers including some black men. I was hung up on cock size (as opposed to nowadays ) and believed the black man myth and wanted to know how I measured up. Eventually she relented and told me she'd had two men, one white, one black who were about as long as me and thicker than me. For some reason that REALLY turned me on and I remember the sex, for me anyway, was really great for the next month. I'm not sure why. I know that she wasn't able to have vaginal orgasms before we started dating but was able to have them with me. But it wasn't my size that did it for her, it was a "riding high" technique that did it, and that I saw in one of her fashion magazines. So maybe I was congratulating myself for being a better lover than the bigger guys she'd had before. Who knows? We broke up about a year later and her having better hung guys before me never bugged me, but the thought of her having bigger (and/or better) guys after me bugged the heck out of me. I didn't talk to her much and she didn't tell me about her new boyfriends, so I never knew one way or the other. The size of my cock grew past the size of the guys she said she'd had (she said they were bigger than her wrist, which was about my girth at the time we dated) and that was a little bit of a thrill. But now I think it was a mistake to ask and haven't asked any more partners about their previous sexual partners, other than the obligatory STDs stuff.