That's why I use snugger fit condoms. Regular ones come right off.
Women: how would you react to a 4 inch man?
- Thread starter MrSmall
- Start date
That's why I use snugger fit condoms. Regular ones come right off.
I wouldnt be a bitch and refuse him, but i wouldnt be running back for 2nd's either
Henryclan
Experimental Member
- Joined
- Dec 7, 2006
- Posts
- 60
- Media
- 19
- Likes
- 4
- Points
- 151
- Location
- Connecticut
- Sexuality
- 100% Straight, 0% Gay
- Gender
- Male
I've been rejected 3 times because of my size before I found someone who didn't care. Everyone handles rejection differently but, in my case, I started avoiding any real physical intimacy in a relationship until I felt comfortable that my size wouldn't be a "deal breaker". Consequently, I had virtually no one night stands after being rejected...
If you know what to do with it and it's clean I would be more than happy to give it a try. There is more to sex than just size Size helps there is no denying that and size helps it stay in but I have had some smaller ones that have been decently satisfying and some bigger ones which have been awful.
ElegantGreenEyesNJ
Just Browsing
If he lied or misrepresented his size prior to the unveiling, I'd be upset. It would make me wonder what else he's lying about.
Barring that, he's a human, he's a guy, and presumably we're at least fond enough of one another to be in bed together, so I would work with it. I've never mocked a man for his lack of endowment; I find that just unbelieveably cruel.
P~
Barring that, he's a human, he's a guy, and presumably we're at least fond enough of one another to be in bed together, so I would work with it. I've never mocked a man for his lack of endowment; I find that just unbelieveably cruel.
P~
Thanks to the ladies for being so honest. This topic does come up frequently but I hope you are not bored with it.
I am a married male with a 3 1/2 inch erection (and very tight small testicles as well). I am also a cuckold which means I enjoy knowing (and in many cases watching) my wife have fabulous sex with her lover. His cock is 8 1/2, very thick, and uncut. He is very Alpha (you know a male is around when he is in the room). I have become very submissive towards women over the years.
My experience is similar to what many of the ladies described as their attitude. I haven't found much of a problem getting dates. Romance and great conversation often helped get me in the bedroom (if the woman did not do a package check). But, actual intercourse was frustrating for both of us. I learned to be sensual, adoring and a great licker. None of these women were hurtful or humiliating when they were presented with my "button" of a dick. If I did get over my performance anxiety...it would erect to 3 1/2 inches. Some took advantage and got on top and got off that way. With others, we never got passed the orgasm she had through oral. Second or third dates were extremely rare.
My previous wfe and my current wife are both size queens. My ex wife cheated on me constantly. She didn't really hide it. I became more and more aroused by it. But we were young and couldn't make cuckolding a part of our relationship. My current wife, however, is a fantastic companion. She loves how I adore and worship her. She loves being my spoiled Princess. Sex is exclusively oral (me to her). We've been together for many years now. Totally committed and loving it.
When we got together, there was a lot of attraction and chemistry. But she has never found any sexual arousal with my penis. We decided to use cuckolding, SPH, and other activities make sex work for us. She simply likes the look and feel of a large penis and testicles. Her current lover makes her orgasm over and over simply with penetration. An amazing thing to watch since I've never gotten a woman off that way.
Bottom line: There is a lot of great information on the web about penis size. Some truthful and some not. My observation is that 4 inches is a minimum penis size for good sex. Relationships are all about attraction, chemistry, and personality. But, sex generally requires at least 4 inches. Of course, having the right equipment is the price of admission (as said earlier)...being capable as a lover requires a lot of skill to go along with it.
I don't know why mother nature would make penises such radically different sizes. There's another website that has a hall of fame and a hall of shame for penis photos. Incredible. The hall of fame has hundreds of very large cocks. The hall of shame (yes, I am on there) are all very little dicked guys. The range of size is amazing...and people's honest attitudes (fame/shame) are exactly what you would think. Very small penis = shame.
marcus
I am a married male with a 3 1/2 inch erection (and very tight small testicles as well). I am also a cuckold which means I enjoy knowing (and in many cases watching) my wife have fabulous sex with her lover. His cock is 8 1/2, very thick, and uncut. He is very Alpha (you know a male is around when he is in the room). I have become very submissive towards women over the years.
My experience is similar to what many of the ladies described as their attitude. I haven't found much of a problem getting dates. Romance and great conversation often helped get me in the bedroom (if the woman did not do a package check). But, actual intercourse was frustrating for both of us. I learned to be sensual, adoring and a great licker. None of these women were hurtful or humiliating when they were presented with my "button" of a dick. If I did get over my performance anxiety...it would erect to 3 1/2 inches. Some took advantage and got on top and got off that way. With others, we never got passed the orgasm she had through oral. Second or third dates were extremely rare.
My previous wfe and my current wife are both size queens. My ex wife cheated on me constantly. She didn't really hide it. I became more and more aroused by it. But we were young and couldn't make cuckolding a part of our relationship. My current wife, however, is a fantastic companion. She loves how I adore and worship her. She loves being my spoiled Princess. Sex is exclusively oral (me to her). We've been together for many years now. Totally committed and loving it.
When we got together, there was a lot of attraction and chemistry. But she has never found any sexual arousal with my penis. We decided to use cuckolding, SPH, and other activities make sex work for us. She simply likes the look and feel of a large penis and testicles. Her current lover makes her orgasm over and over simply with penetration. An amazing thing to watch since I've never gotten a woman off that way.
Bottom line: There is a lot of great information on the web about penis size. Some truthful and some not. My observation is that 4 inches is a minimum penis size for good sex. Relationships are all about attraction, chemistry, and personality. But, sex generally requires at least 4 inches. Of course, having the right equipment is the price of admission (as said earlier)...being capable as a lover requires a lot of skill to go along with it.
I don't know why mother nature would make penises such radically different sizes. There's another website that has a hall of fame and a hall of shame for penis photos. Incredible. The hall of fame has hundreds of very large cocks. The hall of shame (yes, I am on there) are all very little dicked guys. The range of size is amazing...and people's honest attitudes (fame/shame) are exactly what you would think. Very small penis = shame.
marcus
- Joined
- Jan 15, 2006
- Posts
- 40
- Media
- 6
- Likes
- 63
- Points
- 238
- Location
- Tennessee (United States)
- Sexuality
- 80% Gay, 20% Straight
- Gender
- Male
im sure i have dissapointed a few ladies when it comes to my size down there. Ive probably been with about 10 or 12 women none ever had a complaint though. im a big built muscular guy , 5 10 about 215lbs , my penis is between 4 and 4.5 in length and 4.5 in girth. im definitly fascinated with penis size one of the reasons for being on this site. im very small when soft and also have small balls. i think my size has definitly affected my confidence when it comes to picking up a woman. i feel as though i should tell them in advance of my size in case they want to back out. ladies would you want a guy to tell you if he is small or do you enjoy finding out on your own? for the record i totally think size queens rule and its about time women spoke up about what they prefer. whoever said size doesnt matter is a liar with a small dick.
Attachments
Fredneck1951
Legendary Member
Well Ladynsniffer/Marcus we're the same age and I respect your life-style choice but it's not for me, although we've had some similar experiences. During the time I was dating I was turned down for intercourse several times due to my size. Sometimes I would get oral or manual, and I would always give oral and manual. Sometimes there would be intercourse and on occasion it even provided some satisfaction for my partner. Usually though, it was one-and-done in dating terms.
I've been married once and for 32 years. My wife is older than I and very experienced sexually, not only did she have many lovers, some of them were very well hung. In the early days she portrayed herself as "pre-orgasmic" or even "frigid", I don't know if that was to not hurt my feelings (unlikely) or that's just what she thought she was. I do know that while she enjoys being worshipped orally, she never climaxes that way, it always comes down to penetration and that's where we had our problems. It was difficult to make "contact" with my small cock and the wetter she was, the tougher it got. Combine that will my quick trigger, and you have a recipe for an unsatisfying sex life for both of us.
Early on we considered "opening up", there was a friend who was in the 8-1/2-9 in range who would have participated. We stepped away from that precipice. I doubt our relationship would have survived it. I am not into humiliation or being dominated (which doesn't mean I'm not hen-pecked).
We found vibrators, dildos, and extensions on my penis that could help deliver "feeling" into her cavern. The extensions, while limiting my sensation, gave me the "porn-star experience" and enabled me to see the effect a big cock could have on her (and delayed my own ejaculation so I could go long enough to get her off). I can't do that just by myself. I enjoy those encounters.
They are rare these days, she's had some health problems from a genetic condition and one of the side effects of the treatment is that it thins her vaginal walls and makes intercourse painful. That doesn't mean by itself I'm a better fit, but it does mean she can't easily take the sizes she used to enjoy so much. She does get off on Jacuzzis, though.
It's not like she hasn't said hurtful things to me ("I don't know why we're together, I like big cocks!" "I can't feel anything!" "Are you erect?" "Is it in yet?" "Where's your dick?") but down deep she must have the wisdom to realize that you love someone and are with them not for what they have, but for who they are. After all, 32 years have passed.
The responses of some of the ladies here have been quite interesting. Not unlike some of my own experiences. As I have gotten older, I am of the opinion that a truly sexually aware and capable woman should be able to have a satisfying and enjoyable encounter with a man no matter what if they in fact like him.
I've been married once and for 32 years. My wife is older than I and very experienced sexually, not only did she have many lovers, some of them were very well hung. In the early days she portrayed herself as "pre-orgasmic" or even "frigid", I don't know if that was to not hurt my feelings (unlikely) or that's just what she thought she was. I do know that while she enjoys being worshipped orally, she never climaxes that way, it always comes down to penetration and that's where we had our problems. It was difficult to make "contact" with my small cock and the wetter she was, the tougher it got. Combine that will my quick trigger, and you have a recipe for an unsatisfying sex life for both of us.
Early on we considered "opening up", there was a friend who was in the 8-1/2-9 in range who would have participated. We stepped away from that precipice. I doubt our relationship would have survived it. I am not into humiliation or being dominated (which doesn't mean I'm not hen-pecked).
We found vibrators, dildos, and extensions on my penis that could help deliver "feeling" into her cavern. The extensions, while limiting my sensation, gave me the "porn-star experience" and enabled me to see the effect a big cock could have on her (and delayed my own ejaculation so I could go long enough to get her off). I can't do that just by myself. I enjoy those encounters.
They are rare these days, she's had some health problems from a genetic condition and one of the side effects of the treatment is that it thins her vaginal walls and makes intercourse painful. That doesn't mean by itself I'm a better fit, but it does mean she can't easily take the sizes she used to enjoy so much. She does get off on Jacuzzis, though.
It's not like she hasn't said hurtful things to me ("I don't know why we're together, I like big cocks!" "I can't feel anything!" "Are you erect?" "Is it in yet?" "Where's your dick?") but down deep she must have the wisdom to realize that you love someone and are with them not for what they have, but for who they are. After all, 32 years have passed.
The responses of some of the ladies here have been quite interesting. Not unlike some of my own experiences. As I have gotten older, I am of the opinion that a truly sexually aware and capable woman should be able to have a satisfying and enjoyable encounter with a man no matter what if they in fact like him.
hans_talhoffer
Experimental Member
i mean i'm not too impressive myself at 7 1/2. but i'm doing mad PEing, i would suggest you do the same.
