Women influenced by black men?

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  1. Jojo51623

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    Ok, so I've always heard how black guys always had an influence on girls but I think I'm seeing it first hand. I've been best friends with this girl now for over a year. She's a curvy Hispanic women. She's always been that girl next door kind of girl. She's smart, she doesn't party, drink or do drugs. I recently let her know I like her as more than a friend but she doesn't feel the same way. She recently met this black guy on facebook who has been flirting with her. She has been flirting back as well and told him he's handsome and looks like Kayne West. She also let him know she put new pics on facebook so he would comment which he did saying "damn baby girl you looking good". He gets high, drunks and all that but none of that seems to bother her. I asked her if she liked him and she said that he was just a friend but I'm doubting that considering she is flirting back. He seems like a player but that doesn't seem to bother her. Also I notice she has been listening to rap music(something that never interested her before) and has even started talking different, especially when talking to him. Seems like this is a case of a good girl gone black. Your thoughts?
     
  2. wallyj84

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    Wow. Just... wow. I've said some racist things before, but never anything this blatant.
     
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    Wasn't meant to be racist at all. There is porn out there with that name. I just meant the majority of girls that date black guys are usually more of party animals where she is more of a stay at home kind of study girl. Yeah, if that came off racist, well it wasn't suppose to.
     
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    So "good girls" don't date black guys?
     
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    Jojo51623: Wasn't meant to be racist at all. There is porn out there with that name

    and that is very racist also...

    Speaking as a black man, I will tell you that black people are very influentual in the youth society...I was with you on your little rant, until you went to "good girl gone black"....statements like that make me angry, especially when I get stares from white guys if I am with a white woman (who is not the "streotypical fat white girl that likes black guys")....

    1.How can you label this man as a "player" or betta yet PLAYAAAA! lol..couldnt help it!
    2.You show your insecurities by making comments like the ones you just made
    3.how can you pass judgement on someone you have never met or got a chance to know

    you like this girl and you are just mad because she doesn't like you....and now she is talking to this "black guy" and you are probably having thoughts in your head about the "big-dick-black-guy" having sex with the girl that you like....

    man your post i so juvenile it is rediculous....just move on and stop facebook-stalking the chic

    ...and, all black men do not get drunk everyday and smoke weed...I can vouch
     
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    "Majority of girls that date black guys are usually party animals"

    Is that a joke? I didn't know you attracted different "types" of people based on the colour of your skin.

    I think the issue here is she isn't interested in you and you have all these insecurities because she is talking to a "black" man.

    Sounds like you need a girlfriend with a white night gown and matching white hood.
     
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    I'm offended as a black man over your statement. Just because shes not into you its because she into black. Is seems like you let yourself slip into the friendship zone because any chick I was ever talking to would not even bring up another dude or even disrespect me to that level to let me know about someone else. Its seems to me that your game was lame and she was off to the next on. Don't blame it on race blame it on the fact that somewhere you slipped and tried to be her friend think that was going to get you the pussy. So my advice to you is drop that racist shit because it get no one anywhere and drop her to before you keep playing yourself trying to be up under her and you never will fuck her all you will do is consume yourself babysitting some shit you wont get or start hearing about someone who is dicking her down and you getting your feelings hurt and you blame it on this black guy when its relally u that shes not feeling. Find someone who likes you.
     
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    Lay off. You gotta admit that white girls that date black guys are usually drug girls or low self esteem girls. Its everywhere, all you gotta do is open your eyes. As an ex college football player I can assure you it was only the white girls with the black guys that banged multiple players and were pretty indiscriminate. Non of the girls were bright and most had addictions. And yes, the black guys used words like ho, bitch and treated women horribly. I also banged black girls, they were easier than white girls and thought about sex as much as I did. So there are huge racial differences that Political Correctness and liberal bs cant hide. Simply look at our vastly different histories and listen to the the music and study the cultures. Respect is a whole different thing in the different cultures, big surprise - it is also diff in hispanic and asian cultures. Grow up.
     
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    there is a mystique that all women say that black men are bigger,better, and have more stamina that that of other any race...

    so women basically date these men and most of the time they get sprung on the black penis because they never experienced the power of black man, sexually that is...

    in this case though, it is not because the good girl has gone black, but the fact that she evolved into someone who has fed into the mystique about the fact of the black man's sexual prowess....and when a women wants something she most of the time gets it...

    in closing...it sounds to me that you are quite threatened in the fact that she has "gone black" and possibly that she will never return
     
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    What you posted may not have meant to come off racist, but it was. Or maybe you simply didn't know you were making a racist comment. I also wonder what your post would have been if she wanted to date a white frat guy. Would you be concerned with his wild & party ways? If so, rant about a wild guy....not a black guy. Also, can you please define "the girl next door?" Are girls next door only white girls?
     
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    bigkak,
    Damn, what higher education institution did you attend? You've got to be kidding me...please tell me you're kidding. So now you're telling us only women with addictions, and the unintelligent date black men, and only slutty black women think about sex as much as you. Dude, stop while you're ahead. Really, you're hanging with the wrong crowd of people and/or living in the wrong neighborhood if that's all you see when you turn your head.
     
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    What a load of crap!! Many many women who like black guys are far from being a party girl.I for one being one of them.....my sister in law and also my best female friend...we all went to uni and gained a degree.


    Oh yes yes,we know they do don't we..

    So can i...

    ....and you wonder why white women like black guys when the white guy chats as much shit as this!:rolleyes:

    Maybe in the 'college' you attended but i've never ever seen anything like that happen with the black guys i've spent time around whether they have been a bf,husband,friend or aquaintance.


    ....but it isnt always true.

    ...ohhh yes!!! ....and why not!

    IMO,maybe she is attracted to black guys and not white guys...i know i am.Personality-wise I much prefer black guys to white guys because i usually find it's the white guy who is ill-mannered,patronising,full of himself....obviously i know not all white guys are like that.

    Most of all though.....black guys look so fvcking hot!!!!:biggrin1:
     
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    i like your comments that you have me....as well as the others yu were quite fair on this particular subject...
     
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    Wow...that's your first post in 2 years. Congratulations :smile:
     
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    Indeed fore example:

    I really prefer Latin girls, above the others, nice shapes always willing and always taking care of you( when you're hungry or horny).

    But I don't get a hard one on 'Western' girls, who won't cook and having a big mouth in my opinion. If I go for a white girl she definitely comes from East Europe.(Poland, Serbia, Ukraine etc.)

    Btw I hate to be "political corrrect".
     
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    All kinds of guys get drunk and high and all kinds of girls do too. I had a friend (white) that met a black guy a few years ago. She was rather quiet, but very pretty and smart. She's actually getting married to him in a few months. He used to drink a lot and get high, but now they have a little girl and she told me he stopped doing those things. I don't really look at it as she's with a black guy, more like she's with someone she loves. Maybe your friend is just attracted to this guy? I don't really think his skin color has anything to do with it.

    Some guys are just HAWT... and we just can't help ourselves skin color doesn't matter :)
    This guy would cause me to think dirty thoughts all day and I've never dated a black guy. It's all in who we find attractive.

    http://lh3.ggpht.com/_lLsdaCVk3Kk/SY3MvBbdSXI/AAAAAAAAvLA/1lxqmoiHC6g/s512/MichaelEaly26.jpg
     
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    Wow. I hate being politically correct as well, but I'm also smart enough to know that while we have differences, applying them to a culture is bullshit. And even if it is not, having class and tact can get you far. To the original poster, I'm not going to yell at you, but you might want to think about what not being racist means. Saying your not something, and then acting like it cancels it out. Sounds like she want the other dude, move on.
     
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    Porn is one of the few places where blatant racism is accepted. I hope you're not taking your cues from that.

    Black men don't inherently have some kind of magical influence over women. It's time for you to get out of your bubble and get to know people from different cultures. That's free advice for you and some of these ig'nant people that have posted in this thread.

    BIG_SHOT out.
     
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    This whole thread is stupid. None of my black boyfriends or sex buddies were unkind to me, in the way described. Also, I'm western, and my husband wakes up every morning to find I have brewed coffee, and packed him a hot breakfast, and a hot lunch. By the time he's hungry for supper, that's usually ready too. It cracks me up anytime anyone claims some bullshit theory holds water, and uses porn as a citation.


    Oh. And the OP should find some fucking swagger and a new girl.
     
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    I bet I smoke more weed than this black guy........ and I'm white! how could this be? Honestly, I think black guys get stereotyped as weed smokers way too often. I feel like more white guys smoke weed, but who cares I'm getting off topic.
    You're angry because she doesn't like you back. Does it really matter that this guy is black? Would you be happier if she still didn't like you, and she liked some other white guy? Yes a lot of girls buy into what I believe is a myth about black guys being better in bed, having bigger dicks, etc. etc.. What can you do? Maybe you should find a racist white girl that suites you better. :rolleyes:
     
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