I guess I can take a stab at answering your question, or at least responding to your comment. First off, huge mistake bringing up race in a forum. You had to know that would lead to serious piling on and flaming. Secondly, maybe the man has hypnotic power, probably not. The only "issue" I take offense to is the dick myth. And it is a myth, and whats worse is people actually believe it. Nothing better than being a 5'10" white guy and getting my chance to dispel the rumors. The "white dick" or the "irish curse", etc.. Take note of that, I usually never talk up my dick, but I had to for this response. Keep in mind op that the rumors or myths can work both ways. In life, I have had some girls that wanted to check the stories they heard about me. So, you didn't express this, but I think we all believe that you like this girl, but now she likes this black guy. I think you may have had a thing for her, but when she started liking someone else and not you, then you really liked her. And what made it worse was that it was a guy was a...you know...(whispers) a negro. My god, lol, it was a joke, only for effect. Don't ban me, nobody kill me.