WOMEN: Is eating out a good alternative when one can not fet it up?

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  1. bang1010101

    bang1010101 New Member

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    From what i gather most every guy at some point has had difficulty getting hard while with a woman. My question is if a guy has trouble performing with a woman, is eating her out the next best thing?
     
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    ****is eating her out the next best thing?****

    Eating her out is a good thing. For some women, it may be the best thing. So don't worry.
     
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    Yes.

    Yes yes yes!

    :laola:

    Yes!

    I like it.
     
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    Eating at the Y is always good.
     
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    I'd say no.
     
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    As long as it doesn't put any pressure on the woman to orgasm, or to keep receptive of your attentions, yes.

    If she at one point becomes bored with it or if she just stopped feeling horny and she is afraid to tell you so because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, then no.

    Just make sure you communicate with her. If there's pressure from one or the other, it can put a strain on your relationship (in the long run) I think. You know your own partner best...
    Just ask her and tell her about your concerns. She should be supportive and understanding. You should explain it's not her and that you still want to have some sexy-time with her.
     
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    mayb guys from my side of the planet are perpetually hard.lol.
     
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    Eating pussy always makes me rock hard so problem would be solved:biggrin1:
     
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    Christ no! If a guy can't get hard he's useless.
     
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    Not for me. I like penetration, and if you can't give it to me, I'll walk away unsatisfied. Oral sex would just leave me even more frustrated.
     
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    Oral sex to me is like ontrey, used to get the mind and body ready for the main course. I also enjoy desert.:biggrin1:
     
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    Ditto. Oral sex has its time and place, but I need a hard cock for satisfaction. HOWEVER! Oral sex shows me that he hasn't given up entirely. And it helps me stay in the mood on the chance that he'll get things working again.
     
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    Main course for me, every time. Unless the dessert is chocolate :tongue:.
     
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    My interpretation of chocolate may differ to yours but I have heard it being called the chocolate express(hershey highway):tongue:
     
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    That's good too :biggrin1:.
     
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    Wow what a vast difference in answers amongst the women. I've had problems getting hard before. I just figured instead of laying there feeling sorry for myslef, I might be able to make the woman a little bit happy by eating her out, so the night wouldn't be a total dissappointment. Thanks for all the responses.
     
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    It really depends on the woman. But you noticed that :tongue: I'd say, just be affectionate in whatever way you feel is best. Moi, I like a good hand job too.
     
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    i've found that if a guy needs to take a break, eating pussy is usually a good way for him to harden back up :)
     
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