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Could it be that women, being more wordy on the whole, are doing whatever it takes to communicate? Communication can be conveyed poorly and can sound like a disagreement when the person is truly just trying to talk to the other person but may not know how?
Verbal communication of any sort has its purpose in primitive culture and women ruled the roost even then when it came to talking thousands and thousands of years ago. It's really no different now. Women are known to run circles around men when it comes to arguments and how to argue. I believe it translates deep into culture and genetics as to why.
After all we were tending to babies and forced to communicate with other women in small groups while getting chores done. Women mastered the art of words because they had to.
As for why women are more likely to create an argument is an issue I can't even wrap my brain around. So many things can be the reason for that. There is always the fact that perception is reality and those who don't like to talk much, or debate or argue are going to dislike the idea and feel entirely out of place everytime those issues come up. The men are more likely to feel this way on the whole. But the truth, according to my reality, is that I can sometimes feel like I'm in the position of the male around females because I don't feel like fighting at that particular time.
Being unable to argue or debate doesn't really have to do with having balls or not (literally or figuratively) but it does have a lot to do with energy. Do I have the energy to do this right now is what I ask myself. Men who are often out working, combined with the lack of communication desire might just not have the energy to fight back but definitely the capability.
But then again there are only several personality types out there some that are more capable of keeping their ground in a conflict situation and those that can't. Whether or not they are male or female might be random but somehow I believe it's really not as random as we might imagine.
Whew, that was wordy. Anyone up for some conflict?
Verbal communication of any sort has its purpose in primitive culture and women ruled the roost even then when it came to talking thousands and thousands of years ago. It's really no different now. Women are known to run circles around men when it comes to arguments and how to argue. I believe it translates deep into culture and genetics as to why.
After all we were tending to babies and forced to communicate with other women in small groups while getting chores done. Women mastered the art of words because they had to.
As for why women are more likely to create an argument is an issue I can't even wrap my brain around. So many things can be the reason for that. There is always the fact that perception is reality and those who don't like to talk much, or debate or argue are going to dislike the idea and feel entirely out of place everytime those issues come up. The men are more likely to feel this way on the whole. But the truth, according to my reality, is that I can sometimes feel like I'm in the position of the male around females because I don't feel like fighting at that particular time.
Being unable to argue or debate doesn't really have to do with having balls or not (literally or figuratively) but it does have a lot to do with energy. Do I have the energy to do this right now is what I ask myself. Men who are often out working, combined with the lack of communication desire might just not have the energy to fight back but definitely the capability.
But then again there are only several personality types out there some that are more capable of keeping their ground in a conflict situation and those that can't. Whether or not they are male or female might be random but somehow I believe it's really not as random as we might imagine.
Whew, that was wordy. Anyone up for some conflict?