Ok, I posted a question a few days ago and got some great responses. So I thought I'd ask another question thats been on my mind. My gf and I are very sexually active, but its pretty much the basics. We dont get too freaky. She enjoys giving me oral and sometimes will basically force it upon me, which I don't mind, why would I. But she is one of the women that cannot cum during sex, or so she thinks. We've had a few times where she cant tell if she came, usually when I am playing with her clit when she's on top. I've asked if she wanted me to go down on her, but she just got real embarrassed and pretty much said she never wanted me to do that. Once I started going in that direction and she got real alarmed and stopped me. Ok fine, so she doesn't want it, I'll respect that. But one thing that has bothered me was that she said that she had received oral once before and that she came from it. The only time she has orgasms with me is when I'm fingering her. So I'm not sure what I am asking. It might be, how can I make her more confortable with it? Or it might be, what are any other women's opinions on the topic?