My first girlfriend, the first girl that I gave oral to, was extremely eager and enthusiastic to receive it, despite being a very shy, classy, catholic girl. She totally had no hang ups about it and was always eager for more. All the time. She loved it. (I'm assuming I was good :tongue:. We did talk about it, and she did say as much).
Many girls are still raised to believe that the only time we should touch ourselves down there is when washing or wiping after urinating. :redface: Add to that, nearly every feminine product on the market comes with some bizarre floral scent. Hence leading women to believe that they smell bad, no matter how fastidious they are about personal hygeine. Then there is the damage done by various religions regarding sex and the enjoyment thereof. Lest we forget parents who tell their children not to play with themselves. Consequently, many women refuse to receive oral sex. :frown1::redface:
Kudos to the men patient enough to break through all those years of crap. . . We Appreciate You! :biggrin1:
NJQT is soooo right! To add, if a women had received some bad oral, then she may not be that quick to do it again. It's hard enough to go against a lifetime of teaching to stay away from the vagina then having someone who doesn't know what they are doing just makes it worse. I can only remember one good one myself and the rest were just uneventful to plain bad. I still like oral but it has to be with someone that knows what they are doing. Communication is important.
At first I couldn't imagine why a woman would not like oral, especially since you seem to feel pleasure in a totally different way than men do (and, jealously, more prolonged). But now that you explain it, it does make sense. I'll be sure to keep this stuff in mind and do what I can to alleviate it if I ever come across a woman that seems to be uncomfortable with it due to any of these reasons. I really love and enjoy giving females oral (I feel like I was born and destined to eat pussy), so I can't imagine being deprived of it!