WOMEN: one finger, two fingers, three fingers or four?

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  1. yongdo

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    how many do you insert when you masturbate?

    I notice that my girlfriend likes one or two or three for a g-spot orgasm. (she can happily get off with just one) but if I insert four it is not pleasurable to her.

    Interestingly enough my girth is about the size of four fingers grabbed together at their base - which does not please her.
     
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    I don't insert any? I just rub my hood piercing into my clit.
     
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    Sorry it doesn't take much for me. I just rub the hood of my click and its all history from there
     
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    If I penetrate, one is just fine; I usually use my middle finger. If I need two, I add my ring finger.
     
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    Wow. Amazing. Great that that works for you.

    I think that would over stimulate my girlfriend's clit. Is your piercing ever too much?
     
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    That's what I've found with (most) women.

    So, then... that being answered...

    Is there really such a thing as being too small for a male if a finger or two (along with clitoral stimulation) is enough to get most women off?
     
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    Whenever I penetrate, it is always with a dildo. But if someone else is using his/her fingers, I like to start with one and end with two.
     
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    Sometimes... sometimes it's painful it's so sensitive.
     
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    Fingers are too short to get me off so I use a dildo.
     
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    When my wife wants me to insert my fingers I start with one and end up with two - very rarely does see enjoy three.
     
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    I, personally, cannot reach my own G-spot with my fingers. I can orgasm from touching my clit only, but it takes a really long time and isn't as intense as the orgasms I have with vaginal and clitoral stimulation together.

    When masturbating, I typically use a dildo vaginally and either my fingers or a vibrator on my clit. (Actually, now that I'm in a Master/slave relationship, when I'm permitted to masturbate, I use whatever my Master tells me to. But he usually tells me to use what will work best, which is what I would have used anyway).

    At times during my life I've wanted to get off and been nowhere near a dildo (or fuckable man), so I've occasionally used my fingers to stimulate and stretch my vaginal entrance -- usually three.

    With a partner, I like two fingers for G-spot stimulation or to "warm me up," three for more aggressive finger-fucking (or even four, if I'm really aroused).
     
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    Fingers? Nothing compares to my 12inch dildo. cant have an orgasm if it doesnt feel like i am being ripped apart by something BIG.
     
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    I can cum by clitoral stim, but when combined with 2 fingers on my g-spot, its ecstasy! Husband starts with one finger and then works his way up to two.
     
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    depends on the person, of course. some like one, some like none, some like a 2-litre bottle. to each his own.
     
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    Yes. I haven't had that problem yet, but fingers and penises don't feel nearly the same to me. That's apples and oranges. You aren't looking for the same thing. When I'm using fingers (be they mine or my man's) I expect those fingers to bend, separate, undulate, and do all kinds of things a penis doesn't do in it's wildest dreams. At the same time, when I want a penis, the flatness of fingers will not do. I don't care how a man bunches up his fingers, they do not feel feel round in the same way a penis does. There is simply no comparison for me betweeen fingers and pricks.
     
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    one most of the time. (middle finger) but sometimes i insert my index finger too. :smile:
     
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    What she said
     
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    If I'm in the mood for some fingering during oral I tend to like 1-2
     
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    Usually one is enough for me, but if I've orgasmed a couple of times then two can feel better. I can reach my g-spot with the very tip of my middle finger.