No, not at all. There's also the question of emotional rescue for some women.
Emotional rescue is a WHOLE other thing. I think the women who 'search for/allow' emotional rescue are a big part of the problem. Because at some point in the developed relationship the rescue need is met and then what are the roles? The rescuer feels ousted because the rescuee no longer needs rescuing. Bare with me here, I am not saying all but rather ... in my experience.
The rescuer comes in and meets the warped emotional need of the damsel. Why is he searching for a damsel? Wouldn't he rather have a 'whole' person? Just thoughts to ponder. The damsel accepts the hero and instead of figuring out how to get her self out of the wet paper bag she puts that misplaced responsibility on the man. This man, again in my experience, is insecure at the core. He doesn't feel he has enough value to catch the interest of a women who has it all together. Why? Well again in my experience it is because he is less educated and accomplished. He lacks the drive to 'do' he is one of the emasculated males but most don't see it because his role with the damsel gives the image that he is a man's man. But deep down he is less secure in who he is and what he has to offer.
So the rescuee may possibly always remain in distress and they will live happily ever after. Another possibility is that they both mature and learn together and live happily ever after. Or in other cases, the rescuee matures, grows, address emotional wounds and heals, maybe not fully but begins to travel on that path. So the rescuer remains in his role of spouting his hero capabilities instead of doing, conquering, accomplishing, growing, etc. So what happens? The rescuer is displaced. They both move on in a variety of ways.
If a man's role as provider is supposedly determined by nature it means women aren't capable of providing for themselves or that men are better at providing than we are which makes us incomplete without them.
For me, I think the man should want/desire to provide for the woman. Nowadays we are dealing with a variety of detours. For me and my detours, I will likely remain in the business world and continue to grow my career. To be 43 with kids darn near raised, returning to the home just doesn't seem viable. However, that doesn't mean that my desire to be provided for will be gone. And by 'provided for' I am referring to far more than finances. In fact, I would say that the finances are of really no concern to me. However, I think with most men it is important to them that they bring more to the table than the woman. My provided for is more a reference to emotional (not in a rescuing way) offerings, a man that will have the gumption to capture, nurture and protect his treasure.
It also means that if a woman's natural role is that of caregiver and nurturer, then men are incapable of raising a child and keeping his own house by themselves, which is an insult to all single fathers everywhere.
Hmm, this is a very good point and I am glad that you mention it, as I have often mulled over the thought that it is the absence of 'real' men in the homes as one of the factors of why women are 'taking over'.