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As a generalization, I don't tend to laugh at people for that kind of thing. If I stumble and something I'm carrying goes flying, I laugh at that kind of thing. A person's life experiences, not so much.
 

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is it bad if a guy my age hasn't had sex yet? is that laughable?

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Why would it be laughable hunni, you haven't said why you haven't had sex either!
Is it by choice? A confidence thing? Are you stuck in a remote location?
What's the reasons sweetie? X
 

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Laughable? No. Society puts pressure on people to stay virgins, and to be "successful" sexually at the same time. I think it's a bunch of bullshit. Very complicated topic, but that's a quick summary for you.

If it's a personal choice, I have *nothing* to say. I fully support individual choice, particularly in these terms.

If it's not by choice and you do in fact want to be sexually active and just haven't had the right opportunity yet... I might think you were shy and didn't want to be rude to people when trying to flirt, so maybe no one ever picked up on your cues?

I hope that's helpful somehow.
 
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Absolutely not. There is nothing to be ashamed of in being a virgin. What's shameful are people who are forced into being a virgin.

Remember health class, ladies? In the U.S. we were taught to save ourselves to present a beautiful flower for our husband. He doesn't want some used bush. Seriously? I think I lost my virginity on purpose because of that. What the hell is my husband going to give me - a beat up stick?

Seriously, Sweetie, don't fret about your virginity. When the time and person is right all will be good.
 

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to add some background, i am very shy, timed i suppose, like sometimes when i see a pretty girl, i cant get the courage to say anything, afraid of rejection. i have did some oral to a female like twice but that was pretty much it. Though i crave sex very much and want it like alot. guess i just have to get out of this shell and hopefully women can see me as a nice guy.
 
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guess i just have to get out of this shell and hopefully women can see me as a nice guy.

If you are a genuinely kind person, and not just playing the part to get some pussy, we will be able to see it. I can anyway...
 

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to add some background, i am very shy, timed i suppose, like sometimes when i see a pretty girl, i cant get the courage to say anything, afraid of rejection. i have did some oral to a female like twice but that was pretty much it. Though i crave sex very much and want it like alot. guess i just have to get out of this shell and hopefully women can see me as a nice guy.

I get kind of upset when a man says they get tongue-tied around pretty girls. I was told that at a high school reunion. Seriously?

Tell me hi, and I'll tell you hello right back. But like @Tight_N_Juicy said, if there are ulterior motives we'll know. But a nice greeting always makes me feel good. And if I see you as being a genuinely nice guy then we'll have a nice conversation.

Just take a step. Remember, the turtle can only move forward when it sticks its neck out. Take a chance.

Rejection is always tough, but you have to be tougher. Don't let a single rejection set you back. Just keep going.
 

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to add some background, i am very shy, timed i suppose, like sometimes when i see a pretty girl, i cant get the courage to say anything, afraid of rejection. i have did some oral to a female like twice but that was pretty much it. Though i crave sex very much and want it like alot. guess i just have to get out of this shell and hopefully women can see me as a nice guy.
You have to face rejection to find acceptance.