Women sharing men?

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It is different for the reason you mentioned.

Girls just don't share, confident women do on occasion.

Some women can share. Some women can't. It's just that simple. Some of us who never could share before can learn how to do it. It's just not everyone's cup of tea.

But women have been sharing the same men for centuries. They've been better about it by far than men have. Women don't have harems of men. We often don't have multiple husbands even in a society where it is allowed.

Men have been placing their own fears of inadequacy by thinking women just don't share well. The truth is that men don't share well. Because there is a double standard about it.
 
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I have opted to share in the past or at least be in an open relationship mainly because of the long distance (4000 miles) and in stead of either of us cheating on one another you'd be allowed to have fun when we weren't together.
Makes perfect sense to save the relationship for the long haul but in my experience girls 18, 19 and even far in their 20's are not capable of sharing.
Women as in adults who have grown confident about their man's love for them are able but it's not as common as all the men wanting to share their wifes.
 

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Wow, what a stereotype. I don't believe that this is true. It is probably just less known and less talked about that some women like to share.

So what's wrong with stereotypes, men have penises and women have vaginas.
Ow wait not all men are born with penises and not all women have vaginas but it's safe to say that they do even if there are small anomaly's.
 

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I have asked and she won't give a clear answer.

She's just out to set me up, proving I'm just another dog so she can discard me.
she already tried but keeps coming back because I don't fit the image she has of men.

I'm not really sure if I should continue this, as during sex she isn't there with me and is out to actually hurt me. I'm not a puss when it comes to pain but she clearly has some unresolved anger towards men and if I keep this up I am to be the suffering object of her unresolved anger.
 

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The bigger question is: why the fuck are you still giving her these chances to hurt you (in more ways than one)? Are you a glutton for bullshit and punishment? Use your actual brain, hun. It's there for a reason.
 

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I have a weakness for helping women and want to take her bitterness away from her.

In my days of being hurt and mad at the world I wished someone was there to guide me trough it.

As for the hurting part she keeps biting me like I'm the last chicken wing in the world even after I gave hints, suggestions and downright yelled at her to ease it down.
I'm bruised have internal bleeding all over my neck and it just hurts.

But I love the agressivenes, we are very much alike and in some ways I have found my match.

I'm taking it back a few notches to safe my own skin.
 

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The majority of women I've had sex with had steady boyfriends at the time, but were open because their primary guy was either far away, or they had very different sex-drives and I just got their overflow.
You might just want sex more than she does - a woman who wants a casual relationship doesn't necessarily want to fuck any more than a woman who wants something serious. She could sense that you want more sex, and since you're just casual (and that's all she wants) she has no problem trying to set you up. It sounds like she might just be acting like a good friend.

The whole sister thing, on the other hand, does sound really sketchy. A serious ex of mine dated a guy for a year, and then within 6 months of them breaking up the guy started dating her sister (which lasted 4 years.) That always seemed off to me; I never really liked her sister and I think that was probably the main reason why. If I knew that one of my brothers was with a woman I'd file her away as 'permanently off-limits'.

All that said, there's a reason why you hear a lot about cuckolding (the man only has sex with one woman, but that woman has sex with many men) as a 'fetish', and I think it's because a man sleeping with multiple women while being more serious with one is so common that it's not even considered a fetish any more. Every woman I've been serious with has confided to me at some point that hearing about me with other women turns them on, even though it's not something they actually want in the relationship.
I'm very serious with my girlfriend (we live together) and right now she's the only woman I want to have sex with (note: that doesn't mean I don't find other women attractive, but all things considered there's no one else I would be with.) When she thinks other women are flirting with me she seems a little bothered, but every time she's seen a woman who she thinks is hot getting friendly, my gf fucks like crazy when we get back home. She still sometimes sounds upset that I had another woman in my bed the very morning of the day I asked her to be my girlfriend, but every time she brings it up her hand's on my cock soon after.

So I think your girl is at least one of:
a) just being a good friend and trying to help you out
b) sensing your drive is greater than hers
c) turned on by the thought of you with other women
Any one of those things sounds like a good deal, so I say go for it -- but stay away from the sister and so-close-they're-like-sisters level friends.
 

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more like a 5ft werewolf.

I've been called a 5ft rattlesnake, but that's not because I bite like one. :suspect: It was because I was aggressive and vicious when provoked enough.

I know you want to be the 'hero' and save this girl, but harming yourself over her or her anger issues isn't the answer. Let her go and point her towards the location of a good psychologist and psychiatrist.
 
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I've been called a 5ft rattlesnake, but that's not because I bite like one. :suspect: It was because I was aggressive and vicious when provoked enough.

I know you want to be the 'hero' and save this girl, but harming yourself over her or her anger issues isn't the answer. Let her go and point her towards the location of a good psychologist and psychiatrist.

I tried, and I let her go. Seems there are no princesses to be saved these days.

I'd prefer a rattlesnake over a werewolf anytime.