Women sharing men?

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If she's being sadistic she is too screwed up to be serious about. See if you feel for her in about five years when she's had a chance to heal, and do not take crap from her. Find someone who actually loves you.
 

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If she's being sadistic she is too screwed up to be serious about. See if you feel for her in about five years when she's had a chance to heal, and do not take crap from her. Find someone who actually loves you.

Helgaleena, I'm going to take a huge risk here by even saying this. But if you don't have kinks and don't know the BDSM lifestyle personally from being a domme or a sub you really need to just shut up about it. You are embarrassing yourself.

There are some things you just don't understand and rather than to make others feel shitty for your interpretation about it you really need to just back out of the conversation and stick to something you do know a lot about.
 

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i don't think there has been any mention of BDSM activity. only a statement that the OP's lady hurts him. bites, scratches.. tries to inflict physical damage/punishment... not as an expression of kinky good times.. but all malice-y and ooktastic.

don't think Ms. Helgaleena meant sadism as a Top. she meant sadism in a more personality disorder/criminally sense.
 

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I have a weakness for helping women and want to take her bitterness away from her.

In my days of being hurt and mad at the world I wished someone was there to guide me trough it.

As for the hurting part she keeps biting me like I'm the last chicken wing in the world even after I gave hints, suggestions and downright yelled at her to ease it down.
I'm bruised have internal bleeding all over my neck and it just hurts.

But I love the agressivenes, we are very much alike and in some ways I have found my match.

I'm taking it back a few notches to safe my own skin.

The problem isn't that she's got baggage, or that she's got issues with men. The problem isn't that she's into moderately kinky stuff, a la the biting.

The problem is that she's not listening to you when you are setting a boundary. You've told her to ease it down. That it hurts, and not in a good way. She cannot respect that. If she can't respect the boundaries that you are setting in the relationship now, what makes you think that she'll be able to further down the road?

It sounds like it's not going to be good for you, and will probably end badly. I'd say end it. Not a good scene.

And, yeah, I this is what Helga was talking about as far as being sadistic. She's causing you pain, real pain, and she likes it.
 

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I tried, and I let her go. Seems there are no princesses to be saved these days.

I'd prefer a rattlesnake over a werewolf anytime.

Well, if you are so inclined to save a princess, coincidentally, one of my other nicknames is Princess. :wink1:

Off topic, I actually almost used it in my username here, but I didn't want to come off as an an entitled snob or anything, so I went with another nickname.

If you don't mind rattlesnakes, come and be my victim.:saevilw: I don't cause intentionally vindictive pain though.
 
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Broke things off but had to check, since she was so into sharing I suggested she hooked up with one of my friends to which she replied "ewww I was just kidding around, just wanted to see how you'd react."

mystery solved and confirmed
 

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Broke things off but had to check, since she was so into sharing I suggested she hooked up with one of my friends to which she replied "ewww I was just kidding around, just wanted to see how you'd react."

mystery solved and confirmed

If she was being truthful when responding, then yes, mystery solved and confirmed. She sounds pretty 'hot n' cold' though.
 

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ooh--- now I need to go see what Galaxus has been playing! :biggrin1:

I am sorry for saying all that above. Seriously I was lost in translation and lost on my way out of that thread and into this thread.
 

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Broke things off but had to check, since she was so into sharing I suggested she hooked up with one of my friends to which she replied "ewww I was just kidding around, just wanted to see how you'd react."

mystery solved and confirmed
She's is so feeling you out to see what is and what isn't appropriate in the relationship.
Also, alot of woman have trust issues which are mostly justified as the majority of men tend to be bastards so she's just making sure you don't fit into that catagory.
You really can't blame her, atleast 94 percent of the men I know are full blooded dogs and will hump damn near anything.
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She's is so feeling you out to see what is and what isn't appropriate in the relationship.
Also, alot of woman have trust issues which are mostly justified as the majority of men tend to be bastards so she's just making sure you don't fit into that catagory.
You really can't blame her, atleast 94 percent of the men I know are full blooded dogs and will hump damn near anything.
C.

I disagree, I've been in several relationships where the woman has cheated on me and I never strayed away from my beliefs.

Once I pick a woman she is mine and mine alone and no other man or woman will come between that, so I have never cheated and don't feel a need to.

I can hate all the women in the world for the ones that cheated on me but using women and cheating back on them is not going to make it any better.
No matter what men have done to these girls, they should take responsibility for their own actions.
I tried telling this girl and as soon as she realised I didn't fit her image of how men are dogs and all she got really confused as she had always planned on using and dumping me and now she couldn't justify it.

So to keep things short, I can and I will blame her.
 

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Well, if you are so inclined to save a princess, coincidentally, one of my other nicknames is Princess. :wink1:

Off topic, I actually almost used it in my username here, but I didn't want to come off as an an entitled snob or anything, so I went with another nickname.

If you don't mind rattlesnakes, come and be my victim.:saevilw: I don't cause intentionally vindictive pain though.

When I'm in the area I'll know where to find the rattlesnake princess :cool:
 

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What you have here pal is a nutter! She obviously does not know what she wants and is using your relationship to try shit out she either finds the norm or wants to do. Either way, she is not ready for a steady state relationship so make sure you do 't do anything daft like fall in love. My advice would be to get as much experience out of it as possible (these opportunities don't come Along that often) and then find a more substantial partner.
 

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I disagree, I've been in several relationships where the woman has cheated on me and I never strayed away from my beliefs.

Once I pick a woman she is mine and mine alone and no other man or woman will come between that, so I have never cheated and don't feel a need to.

I can hate all the women in the world for the ones that cheated on me but using women and cheating back on them is not going to make it any better.
No matter what men have done to these girls, they should take responsibility for their own actions.
I tried telling this girl and as soon as she realised I didn't fit her image of how men are dogs and all she got really confused as she had always planned on using and dumping me and now she couldn't justify it.

So to keep things short, I can and I will blame her.
I'm not always right and I'm ok with that;)
I never strayed away from my beliefs either which makes it a longer road to follow, it's not the destination but the journey.
You're a rare find and a treasure to the woman who's looking for you right now.
If we stayed in all the bad relationships we'd never end up finding the right ones.
I think that maybe there's a chance she was disappointed that you were'nt a dog, maybe that's what she's looking for.
That way she doesn't have to hold any feelings for you and can just jet off in a New York minute to the next guy.
Some woman have made it an art out of using jerks(dogs) so maybe just look at it this way, you didn't fit the profile(thank goodness).
You'll find love again Tesla - Love Song - YouTube .
C.
 
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