I have a weakness for helping women and want to take her bitterness away from her.
In my days of being hurt and mad at the world I wished someone was there to guide me trough it.
As for the hurting part she keeps biting me like I'm the last chicken wing in the world even after I gave hints, suggestions and downright yelled at her to ease it down.
I'm bruised have internal bleeding all over my neck and it just hurts.
But I love the agressivenes, we are very much alike and in some ways I have found my match.
I'm taking it back a few notches to safe my own skin.
The problem isn't that she's got baggage, or that she's got issues with men. The problem isn't that she's into moderately kinky stuff, a la the biting.
The problem is that she's not listening to you when you are setting a boundary. You've told her to ease it down. That it hurts, and not in a good way. She cannot respect that. If she can't respect the boundaries that you are setting in the relationship now, what makes you think that she'll be able to further down the road?
It sounds like it's not going to be good for you, and will probably end badly. I'd say end it. Not a good scene.
And, yeah, I this is what Helga was talking about as far as being sadistic. She's causing you pain, real pain, and she likes it.