Women sleeping with you because of your size?

[Coronahead]

i think as i've mentioned before, in this thread and perhaps others, it's always the husband that reaches out. the couples that i've been with, while the women seem to appreciate my size (although if anyone knows what women are actually, honestly thinking at any given time, please tell us the secret) ... my point is, they didn't marry me. they married a guy with a normal size endowment. Understand?

Who knows what women are thinking at any given moment, but what I can judge from is action and experience. even on the sites that are sexual in nature, they rarely mention size. they mention "connection" first.

The couples or "threesomes" as you call it that i've met, I'm just a novelty, a one-off for an adventure, one night of fun. the women go home, love and cherish, their husbands. and even in the stunted courtship of couples play, the woman always wants to "get to know you first". so i often have to engage in mindless, boring talk about "what you like to do for fun?" hobbies, occupation, all that kind of inane discourse to get them to feel comfortable to actually jumping into bed. Even the couples on swinger sites, they all say about the women, "for her it's about chemistry and connection." that chemistry and connection isn't measured with a ruler.

further, i would add for as many times i've been contacted by couples, i've been rejected by them because the MRS says I look too big. Fact. so, again, I don't know how any of this supports a notion that women care about size, (in a good way).

as far as talk and changing their mind? they will groan, cum, squirt, comment "you're so big". take some pictures, but at the end of the evening, they go home with their normal sized husband. and spend another 30 years together. understand?

again, bringing me to the central thesis. women don't care about size.

I totally get what you are saying and I know that "penis size " is well down on the list of women look for in a man, and a wife will never leave a good husband for some huge dicked guy. What I was asking was more along the lines of the thread title...... that just the pure sexual component of women that they either desire or after a big cock experience, learn to desire a big cock. You would see this first hand like maybe her orgasming for the first time during intercourse where maybe it never happened before and is a new experience or maybe she tells you she enjoys the feelings of being filled up. I know she is not change partners for this , in fact she might even downplay the pleasure if she is with her husband (and if you are experienced you can tell when this is happening). But like I said from just the sexual component only do you feel it helps you attain her pleasure and satisfaction?

 

[Coronahead]

It does seem to be the norm. If all I really want from a dude is casual sex, I also want to be friends. We don't have to be friends already before I can feel comfortable getting into an adult situation together, but I do need the comfort of believing we can be friends, and that friendship is a mutual goal. Once that is established, let's get horizontal. This isn't free. It costs time and attention. Let's eat, get drinks, dance, people watch, touch the ocean, shoot pool, do karaoke, run our errands together. Whatever. Just give me an opportunity to know you. That's how I feel about going about a long-term hook-up sitch. I don't do one night stands, I don't fuck strangers, and if I decide I don't like a dude I will say goodbye and then vanish like he never knew me.

A lot of men, in my experience, do make an attempt to have sex immediately. I do not lead them on. I make my intentions clear. If that premature pass comes anyway, I simply assert myself, and get myself home. Usually, this doesn't stop them from wanting to see me again.

Once I'm ready, I'm really ready. I never once picked based on size, and I don't like for a dude to talk to me about his dick unless it's a warning that it's unusual in some way. Warn me about your weird shit. That does include unusual size (more than 8" long, or 6" around, or less than 4" long or 4" around). Generally, no, I don't care, nor want to hear about it.

I agree with some of what @AtYourCervix10 has put forth in this thread. I don't care about size, and only know two women who do, and even they won't say no just because it's not really big, though they might throw a fuck onto an outsized novelty dick on a dude they otherwise wouldn't entertain. I do like plans. Please respect my time. Though, if Dude happens to call to see if I want to come out or visit right away and I happen to be free, I'm okay with that.

If I'm on a site, I'm not looking for love. That's where I disagree. I'm looking for a reliable, regular good lay if I'm looking. You can't find that by exchanging photos and 5 sentences. Though, I wonder where he finds these boring people who ask him lame questions about hobbies. Show and prove. I don't want Dude to tell me what he does for fun. Invite me out. Show me what's fun. Or, come out with me and see how I kill a Thursday night. And yes, I prefer to pay my own way every time, until we actually are friends, and might sometimes treat each other.

And it's really not so much that I want a connection. I want to be friends so Dude cares enough to protect me (and my other partners) from disease and poor choices. I want to know Dude well enough to trust that he makes good choices, utilizes safer practices, and won't just fuck any open hole. Plus, it's nice to feel comfortable enough to sleep over after a long, hard session. Who the fuck wants a 20 minute drive between orgasm and sleep?

Thank you for your detailed explanation

 

[SmallDguy]

I would literally chop off one of my fingers on my left hand in exchange for being well endowed. I used to live vicariously through my cousin and how woman talked about his at parties and stuff. Also his stories bout having sex with married woman.

 

[wilsonthevolleyball]

Back in the day I used to fuck a girl I worked with. She commented on how big my dick was. I never thought I had a big dick. She told a coworker about it and she had to have some and commented on the size. She told her sister-in-law about it and she had to have some of and talked about it. So I don't know if I have a big dick or there are a bunch of little dicked guys out there.

 

[thongboy]

It's happened but for me a fuck is a lot better when he or she is attracted to me as a person and I feel the same way toward them. When it's emotional as well as physical, there's a big difference.,although I know a big cock is an asset

 

[thickcockjames]

Yeah, I've had a few hook ups because of word of mouth about my dick. Mostly in college. But, I've always been the kind of person that wouldn't want to be with someone if they only wanted to be with me because of that. I've got a few FB's that I've had for a while, but anymore, if a girl only wants to be with me because of my dick, I turn them down. It kind of starts to feel a bit degrading after a while. Like, the novelty of it has worn off a bit.

 

[BoBolt]

Have a question for you straight guys with big dicks. Do you think you have ever been in a situation where a woman has slept with you because she knew you had a big dick or do you think you have regular causal encounters with a woman because of your size.

As a gay guy with a big dick I have had a few FB's over the years that I know picked me out purely because of my size and I am wondering does this happen too to straight guys.

Of course!