SpeedoGuy: [quote author=palladen link=board=sex;num=1071112885;start=0#4 date=12/10/03 at 21:45:18]...but the ones that did swallow were really into it. The ones that did but weren't (into it) killed the moment. You just have to ask the lady to be honest ... don't swallow unless she enjoys it too otherwise it's a mood killer.[/quote]
Exactly the same experience here. It was indeed a bummer when a partner ended up hacking and coughing with a unhappy bug-eyed grimace on her face. Not much fun for either of us.
On the other hand, there were times where my partner actually asked if I minded that she swallowed.
In another case, a prospective sex partner I was dating used a sly innuendo to hint that she liked swallowing. I thought she was just joking and laughed it off at the time. Later, though, when the mood was cozier I brought her comments up again and teasingly challenged her to prove it. Turns out it was no joke. Damn if she didn't help me unbutton my 501s and then procede to swallow everything I gave her.
SG