My girlfriend (wife someday) always swallows. Honestly I don't care if she swallows it or spits it out as long as it is in her mouth getting stimulation right up to, and including, the moment of busting. I think that's an important distinction. She does always swallow though, and she enjoys it. She says it doesn't taste like anything to her. If it's a particularly big load and some of it leaks out, she apologizes and feels bad because she thinks that I think it's wasted or something. I laugh and try to explain the above to her (what happens to the cum after busting isn't important to me) and to not worry about it because it's a non-issue, but it doesn't seem to take.
The one downside is that I only get head once a month, or less. Her mouth can't handle the girth for more than a couple of minutes, she says it really makes her jaw hurt. I feel bad, so I don't bring it up that much, but it sucks because getting my dick sucked feels so amazingly awesome, especially since I instructed her in everything she knows. It kind of has to be planned. No sex for 3 or 4 days beforehand, so it'll be a short session; no more than 5 minutes or so until I nut. So basically, around period time. :tongue:
We get sex from each other as much as we want, and since we are working on making a family at the moment, I get to bust in her pussy every time. So, I'm happy.
More head sure would be nice, but not at the expense of her poor little mouth. With nice girth, and pussy any time, I feel like the not getting head thing is like a rich person complaining about not having enough money. I guess that's why I'm here at the LPSG. :tongue: