Women that Fake Orgasms..Right Or Wrong?

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  1. D_VictorVikkiTielVictoria

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    I think that such lie would be the worst lie a women could possibly tell a man.
    It strikes at the very foundation of trust in a relationship.
    You're not doing a man any favors or protecting his ego by lying about something so important.
    If you think your relationship is important, honesty is the key and you sit down and talk about it.
    If you're caught in a lie, chances are, trust will be broken.
    Lies can take on a life of it's own and eventually come out.
    So I think it's wrong
     
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    As wrong as giving a trophy to every child on the soccer team.
     
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    Faking it is so bad it's gone past good and back to bad again.
     
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    Its not bad.... its STOOOPID.

    Many women complain that their men don't satisfy them...

    Well... how the hell are they gonna get any better if you are giving them FALSE feedback?

    You want better sex? Tell them exactly what gets you there and what doesn't get you anywhere... and reward improvement.
     
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    I agree with Phil.
     
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    I have a suspicion it happens quite a bit... And yeah it's wrong. The fact that I know it happens means I never even ask anymore. I just ask if she's satisfied and don't say the O word at all...
     
  7. Phil Ayesho

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    Me, I just keep eating till her eyes roll back and she can't speak coherently....
     
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    Sometimes it just easier to get it over with. A big day at the office tomorrow. No time for sex therapy. :wink:
     
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    LOL...What she said.
     
  10. Enid

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    E, did you catch my Ghost World reference?

    :-D


    (Incidentally, by bad I meant incredibly wrong and therefore, stupid.)
     
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    Yeah, it's so wrong, and laughing at our lame jokes ranks a damn close second.

    I despise charity.:wink:
     
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    eh bruddah, i'd honestly rather her fake an orgasm than her lie about i she loves me or if she's cheating on me.

    i agree with what phil said. wahines often complain that their men don't satisfy them, yah? well, maybe if you didn't fake feeling good and actually told us what feels good, what doesn't, as well as telling us what you like an opening that line of communication, we could improve, yah?

    lack of communication is a relationship killer, peoples!
     
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    Depends on the circumstances. If a woman is happy faking orgasms, and the man isn't any wiser, what's the problem, exactly?
     
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    Yep no problem..........

    How To Fake An Orgasm
     
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    True, rjr, true.

    Potential problem: If he's a novice, her lack of honesty might be setting up the schmuck's next girlfriend(s) and him for disappointment. Honesty might inform both of them about being groovier love monkeys.

    Duty calls. Women, you owe it to other women.
     
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    Hey honey you want to put on a little show for yourself go for it. Don't come whining when you're not satisfied.
     
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    besides the fact that there's a lack of communication, which as i've said is a relationship killer, there's the fact that he thinks he's doing something awesome, when in fact, it's prolly turning her off. so, let's say that they break up for whatever reason, yah? he's gonna sleep with someone other wahine, and he's gonna use his time-tested, never fail technique, and his ego will be crushed when the new wahine tells him how bad he is at fucking. :biggrin1:
     
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    Why won't his ego be crushed when his current "wahine" tells him how bad he is at fucking?

    And why is it the first woman's responsibility (to subsequent women) to educate him? There's a not-insignificant number of women out there who don't think there will be any subsequent women.

    edit: And now that I think of it, who's to say the subsequent woman won't go through the roof when subjected to the same technique that left the first women unsatisfied. Not all women enjoy the same things. Or so I'm told. :rolleyes:
     
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    Ghost World? :confused:
     
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    Indeed some people fake marriage till death them part.


     
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