Sex with my last girlfriend was a nightmare. Thanks god we split up. One of the reasons why sex was horrible is that she didn't get involved during the act so it was like having sex with a doll. She didn't moan, move or anything else. Just she sucked a little and opened her legs. Boring. We guys are on pressure to be good at bed and have a big penis and so and so but it seems that it is an one way street. So my questions for the ladies are: Do you think it is the way I said? Do you feel pressure to be good at bed? For the ladies and the getlemen: what do you think a woman should do to turn her in a good lover? Please, I am talking about sex, I know in many other aspects women feel a pressure that men don't so don't be angry. And by the way my ex had a history with the same problem and other guys so don't start to especulate about if the problem was the relationship, the problem was me, blah, blah blah. I just want to know your ideas about sex and women. Thank you very much.