Tboy: This is probably a bit too broad a question, but in general, what kinds of attitudes do more experienced women have towards virgins? I just kind of want to know what to expect, since having a larger penis doesnt really translate into better sex. I think that whether or not Im overly nervous my first time will depend largely on my partners attitude towards me as a virgin. Im by no means desperate for sex- Ive gone 21 years and can wait until the time is right. But I think that also means tensions will be higher, since there will be serious emotional involvement and more at stake. An awkward first time may make the rest of the relationship awkward, especially if my partner is more experienced (which for someone around my age is probably likely). I'm not worried about the size of my penis, but still, I've gotta know how to use it. Anyway, Im eager to start dating again and this has been weighing on my mind a bit. Any tips on overcoming anxiety and/or what to expect?