women who are sexually reserved
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Drifterwood
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A lousy fuck is worse than no fuck.
So I don't agree with the ones who are saying that you should be grateful. In fact I find it insulting to male sexuality, a condescending stereotype.
If your wife likes sex once a week, then have sex with her once a week, it might just be a rewarding experience for both of you.
So I don't agree with the ones who are saying that you should be grateful. In fact I find it insulting to male sexuality, a condescending stereotype.
If your wife likes sex once a week, then have sex with her once a week, it might just be a rewarding experience for both of you.
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HiddenLacey
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Allow me to edit and say I meant that is why I had said that about the OP's wife, not MB.
He knows - he's just taking the piss.
Either that or he doesn't notice me bucking, writhing and groaning while his tongue's in my cunt.
But he's a fairly perceptive fellow, so I think it's the former. :smile:
HiddenLacey
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I know, I had already read posts that you had referred to him in. I assumed as usual that one of the two of you will keep me on my toes about everything that I post:smile: I'm not exactly sure what taking the piss means, but I think I get the idea!
Edit: Maybe being on here and talking to so many people with different personalities will help me become a stronger person, I would say grow some balls, but I hate to see what type of come back that would get
I already know there are some strong people here, it's good for me!
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Sorry I didn't get to this sooner, but later is better than nothing (I hope).
Well, as to pics, mine are real, and I think Dolfette and Mm. Rouge would probably agree they're not unimaginative, too explicit, gory, or same old, same old (which was also part of this discussion) - I'd truly like to see something similar from the guys here, but usually all we get is cocks and an occasional body shot - where are the different angles, more ball shots, more bodies, faces? (Block out the eyes or better, part of the lower face if you can't be recognized - a face on top of a body gives perspective, duh. Calboner has learned this.) Some of the pics posted are either boring (ho-hum) or just a complete turn-off.
Back to topic - the OP need to sit down and "communicate" seriously about all this with his wife - after 11 years, it should not just be arising as a problem and won't be solved unless each listens to the other and shows he/she *truly* cares about the other partner!
Well, as to pics, mine are real, and I think Dolfette and Mm. Rouge would probably agree they're not unimaginative, too explicit, gory, or same old, same old (which was also part of this discussion) - I'd truly like to see something similar from the guys here, but usually all we get is cocks and an occasional body shot - where are the different angles, more ball shots, more bodies, faces? (Block out the eyes or better, part of the lower face if you can't be recognized - a face on top of a body gives perspective, duh. Calboner has learned this.) Some of the pics posted are either boring (ho-hum) or just a complete turn-off.
Back to topic - the OP need to sit down and "communicate" seriously about all this with his wife - after 11 years, it should not just be arising as a problem and won't be solved unless each listens to the other and shows he/she *truly* cares about the other partner!
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- sbat,
Sorry I didn't get to this sooner, but later is better than nothing (I hope).
Well, as to pics, mine are real, and I think Dolfette and Mm. Rouge would probably agree they're not unimaginative, too explicit, gory, or same old, same old (which was also part of this discussion) - I'd truly like to see something similar from the guys here, but usually all we get is cocks and an occasional body shot - where are the different angles, more ball shots, more bodies, faces? (Block out the eyes or better, part of the lower face if you can't be recognized - a face on top of a body gives perspective, duh. Calboner has learned this.) Some of the pics posted are either boring (ho-hum) or just a complete turn-off.
Back to topic - the OP need to sit down and "communicate" seriously about all this with his wife - after 11 years, it should not just be arising as a problem and won't be solved unless each listens to the other and shows he/she *truly* cares about the other partner!
Its not too late. Your pictures are beautiful. You all remember that guy (was it MagTro, or TroMag, or something?) that was talking about that ideal waist to hip ratio? You're a great example.
By "female participant", I meant male member (teehee) galleries where they are getting fellated by or having sex with a woman.
D_Sparroe Spongecaques
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I absolutely agree! If i had a penny for every time some guy pm's me asking me to tell him how marvellicious i think his cock is i would have retired to St Tropez weeks ago!
I find feck all attractive about some headless body with a willy protruding out of the snap....and the worst is when guy asks me if i think his SO pic with her fingers almost ripping herself in two looks sexy!!!!
I do confess i do quite looking at a torso now and again but its the words someone speaks,not their nutz n co glaring proudly from the screen that gets me all of a dither.
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I'm sure you look just great without the balls.I know, I had already read posts that you had referred to him in. I assumed as usual that one of the two of you will keep me on my toes about everything that I post:smile: I'm not exactly sure what taking the piss means, but I think I get the idea!
Edit: Maybe being on here and talking to so many people with different personalities will help me become a stronger person, I would say grow some balls, but I hate to see what type of come back that would get
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D_Sparroe Spongecaques
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Sorry I didn't get to this sooner, but later is better than nothing (I hope).
Well, as to pics, mine are real, and I think Dolfette and Mm. Rouge would probably agree they're not unimaginative, too explicit, gory, or same old, same old (which was also part of this discussion) - I'd truly like to see something similar from the guys here, but usually all we get is cocks and an occasional body shot - where are the different angles, more ball shots, more bodies, faces? (Block out the eyes or better, part of the lower face if you can't be recognized - a face on top of a body gives perspective, duh. Calboner has learned this.) Some of the pics posted are either boring (ho-hum) or just a complete turn-off.
Back to topic - the OP need to sit down and "communicate" seriously about all this with his wife - after 11 years, it should not just be arising as a problem and won't be solved unless each listens to the other and shows he/she *truly* cares about the other partner!
My pics are all mine as well.I'm perfectly happy with me without having to nick someone elses.The people who have seen me on cam can verify i am me and not some geezer pretending.
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Yeah, all my pictures are mine as well. Who would pretend to be me? I just don't see the point in acting like your someone your not? Especially on here!
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My one picture (my verification picture) is obviously 100% me. I honestly don't plan at this point to post any others. In theory, it'd be nice to post my face and more of my body but I'm just not that comfortable doing that when I have an existing relationship and you never know when or where they will show up in the future. So that one picture will have to suffice for now.
I guess that's part of my "reserveness" if you will.
I guess that's part of my "reserveness" if you will.
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HiddenLacey
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ROFL, I don't believe it for a minute:biggrin1: What I would believe is that you took down all of the real pic's of you so you would not be trolled upon any longer! But for the sake of keeping it that way I'll pretend your that fat, toothless, bald, tiny todgered man:tongue:
I agree with ManlyBanisters. I felt like the OP was expressing that things have been changing with his sex life with his wife and that he's concerned about these changes, especially when he mentioned that he hardly ever gets to see her naked anymore. It was that sentence that told me that things used to be different in the bedroom, and he's worried about that. He's expressed that he's tried talking to her about it to no avail.
It's the reason I recommended a sex/relationship therapist. There are many things that a person can hear clearly from an impartial third party that one can't hear from one's own lover, and a therapist would be able to get help them in ways that we just can't. It could be that his wife is having difficulty talking to him about what is happening. None of us know the reasons why his wife has become more reticent about sex and about her body, and we have no way of discovering those things. It could be hormonal, she could be having sexual issues, it could be based on her relationship with her husband. It could be that he just doesn't appreciate her enough. A therapist will be able to solve all these problems. We'll never know what the problem is, but something is happening that has made him concerned, and I think that the only way he'll find happiness is if he goes to see a professional about it.
It's the reason I recommended a sex/relationship therapist. There are many things that a person can hear clearly from an impartial third party that one can't hear from one's own lover, and a therapist would be able to get help them in ways that we just can't. It could be that his wife is having difficulty talking to him about what is happening. None of us know the reasons why his wife has become more reticent about sex and about her body, and we have no way of discovering those things. It could be hormonal, she could be having sexual issues, it could be based on her relationship with her husband. It could be that he just doesn't appreciate her enough. A therapist will be able to solve all these problems. We'll never know what the problem is, but something is happening that has made him concerned, and I think that the only way he'll find happiness is if he goes to see a professional about it.
like i said in my post though,
when a guy is constantly trying to turn you into something you're not, it stops you wanting them the same way and makes your sexuality shut down even more.
i'd've hated him by now!
there might be other stuff going on for her but it could also just be the way he's making her feel.
maybe she feels like she can't undress without him leering and leaping.
when a guy is constantly trying to turn you into something you're not, it stops you wanting them the same way and makes your sexuality shut down even more.
i'd've hated him by now!
there might be other stuff going on for her but it could also just be the way he's making her feel.
maybe she feels like she can't undress without him leering and leaping.
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