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Or take forever to cum from dick because they use sex toys more than they should. And sometimes she isn't even able to make herself cum while using the dildo.

Does it turn you off if you're fucking a female and you get the feeling nothing you do will ever get her to cum ?

I have this girl who I believe just love the feeling of dick inside her, it doesn't matter how close she tells me she is to cuming it will never happen :biggrin1:

For some reason knowing this doesn't motivate me to sleep with her, i'm not use to spending hours of constants fucking to make any female cum. I had sex with her like 5 times and was only able to make her cum once.

She has sex toys and her TV is always playing porn :biggrin1:
 

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do you "love" her?

sex is more than just friction and lubrication mixed with movements.

maybe make it more personal,show HER it is because of *her your cock is that hard.

it is usually something in mind that makes a man or woman
cum.
 

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sex toys especially vibrators can diminish sensitivity in the clitoris, tell her to stop using a vibrator so much.
alot of girls need both type of stimulation 2 cum,, gspot and clitoris

also like someone said not all girl cum from penetration, try eatin her pussy, fingering her and suck and lick on her clit. @ types of stimulation remeber. so when u fuck her she getting her clit stimulated by ur hands, or torso grinding on her, and her g spot shud be taken care of by ur cock

also one way ive found to make a girl cum(squirt) by penetration is when u have sex missonary take ur hands and put them under her bum, one on each cheek , n make sure her legs open up a bit like a v, so u have ur torso inbetween her legs and ur hands under her bum,, start fucking her slowly and DEEP, and make sure that u have the top of ur croctch(ontop of ur dick ,under ur belly button) pushing against her clit, (this while insure she gets both type of stimulation) and that u keep as much of ur penis in the girl while u fuck her

so u basically r trying to keep as much of ur manhood in her while thrusting deep, and also have ur front/stomach/top of ur crotch rubbing against her clit,, and jsut keep grinding and keeping ur dick in while gyrating or grinding , n keep at it , feel off her body and adjust ur rythem of fucking by how she moves 2 u. , n when she getting excited like u think she mit cum, tell her 2 push out while shes about to cum, n u shud feel it on ur cock like it getting pushed out, n just keep forcing ur dick in the same motion,, n f ur doing it right, u feel the pussy contracting, n eventually it shud basically push u out of her pussy n hopefully some cum qhile squirt out 2.... thats my tipp,, if u dont understand i can try to elaborate
 
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Or take forever to cum from dick because they use sex toys more than they should. And sometimes she isn't even able to make herself cum while using the dildo.

Does it turn you off if you're fucking a female and you get the feeling nothing you do will ever get her to cum ?

I have this girl who I believe just love the feeling of dick inside her, it doesn't matter how close she tells me she is to cuming it will never happen :biggrin1:

For some reason knowing this doesn't motivate me to sleep with her, i'm not use to spending hours of constants fucking to make any female cum. I had sex with her like 5 times and was only able to make her cum once.

She has sex toys and her TV is always playing porn :biggrin1:


To be frank you sound inexperienced and maybe should look at your own technique and really learn about a female anatomy.

Like somebody else said very few women can orgasm through penetration anyway but rev cowgirl is a good one for sensation to her g spot as the head of the penis points towards it whilst thrusting.Plus you can stimulate her clitoris at the same time.

Sex toys do jack all to lessen sensation during intercourse.
 

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How often should women use sex toys?
I think if the sex toy can no longer get her to cum then maybe its being overdone. I told her to stop using it - she kept a passion party a week later with her GFs - inwhich they gathered together and ordered sex toys :biggrin1:


She is just addicted.
 

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To be frank you sound inexperienced and maybe should look at your own technique and really learn about a female anatomy.

Like somebody else said very few women can orgasm through penetration anyway but rev cowgirl is a good one for sensation to her g spot as the head of the penis points towards it whilst thrusting.Plus you can stimulate her clitoris at the same time.

Sex toys do jack all to lessen sensation during intercourse.

Well I am 21 - and I was able to make all the other women I had sex cum multiple times during sex. So i'm sure she is the problem, but I am aware I may be inexperienced.


For e.g if I take my dick out of her pussy and rub her clit with it she goes wild!!!

I'm just turned off knowing it's going to take something special to get her off.

Women should stop using sex toys or atleast over using them, stop masturbating.
 
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Well I am 21 - and I was able to make all the other women I had sex cum multiple times during sex. So i'm sure she is the problem, but I am aware I may be inexperienced.


For e.g if I take my dick out of her pussy and rub her clit with it she goes wild!!!

I'm just turned off knowing it's going to take something special to get her off.

Women should stop using sex toys or atleast over using them, stop masturbating.


Strangely enough only 4% of the female population can orgasm through penetration alone so unless you found all of them then you must have done something else in order to stimulate them.

Yes if you take your penis out of her and rub her clitoris she will obviously go wild as the clitoris is alot more sensitive than inside of her.The most sensitive part inside her is a mere 2 inches in so concentrate on that part alongside stimuli on the outer parts.

She is probably turned off knowing you are not prepared to do something special to 'get her off'

Why would anyone stop masturbating? Surely in order to get to knows ones body then masturbating is a brilliant way of doing just that.

Perhaps using a sex toy is alot more satisfying than a guy who is chronically crap between the sheets!
 

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Strangely enough only 4% of the female population can orgasm through penetration alone so unless you found all of them then you must have done something else in order to stimulate them.

Yes if you take your penis out of her and rub her clitoris she will obviously go wild as the clitoris is alot more sensitive than inside of her.The most sensitive part inside her is a mere 2 inches in so concentrate on that part alongside stimuli on the outer parts.

She is probably turned off knowing you are not prepared to do something special to 'get her off'

Why would anyone stop masturbating? Surely in order to get to knows ones body then masturbating is a brilliant way of doing just that.

Perhaps using a sex toy is alot more satisfying than a guy who is chronically crap between the sheets!

I wasn't surprise by her reaction when I rub her clit with my dick but she didn't want it to end.

She was using sex toys before me, and it's not really my problem if she can't cum from dick. I hate when she wants long sessions which leads to nothing.

and yeah I was lucky to only meet the 4 percent who can cum from dick.

Women have become something they weren't meant to be by their constant masturbation.

There is the G-spot - I always hit it and most girls cum from that.
 

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"Women should stop using sex toys or atleast over using them, stop masturbating."

no, they shud just do it manually without a vibrator if they are lacking sensitivity in their clit,, also ive found personally that dildos do make a girl a bit looser, just like fingering a girl a bit beofre fucking will slighty loosener her pussy

"and yeah I was lucky to only meet the 4 percent who can cum from dick."
they were fakin

try doggy or cow girl 2 n rub her clit,, or use the vibrator since she uses one all the time
,, it not about how u make her cum, its about making her cum
 

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I have a hard time cumming, but that doesn't mean that I'm not enjoying the sensations of being deep fucked either. Yes, a man would have to stay on me for a while, but once I do cum, it's totally worth it. I love being fucked from behind and I'm able to make myself cum by playing with my clit, but they have to keep fucking me hard for me to achieve the mind-altering orgasm I'm having. For the record, I can squirt when I cum, but there have only been a few men who were able to get me to achieve this. I have a friend who said that she squirted 40 times in one night - I hate her! Any MEN up for the challenge here in Austin, Texas? ;-)
 
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I wasn't surprise by her reaction when I rub her clit with my dick but she didn't want it to end.

She was using sex toys before me, and it's not really my problem if she can't cum from dick. I hate when she wants long sessions which leads to nothing.

and yeah I was lucky to only meet the 4 percent who can cum from dick.

Women have become something they weren't meant to be by their constant masturbation.

There is the G-spot - I always hit it and most girls cum from that.


Well yes it plainly your problem if she cannot orgasm through penetration as you're her sexual partner and plus you've posted a thread re: it.

Well actually you havnt met the whole 4% lol!

What exactly have women become by masturbating?

No,you are incorrect,most girls (i hate that term) do not orgasm through the g spot.See you DO have alot to learn but seem to think you know it all :p

My advice would be to take time out to really learn about the female anatomy and then and only then will you be able to pleasure the female in question without totally getting agitated and,to use your language,totally bollocksing it up!!

I'm alot older than you and i wasnt so aware when i was as young as you but due to listening to advice i am able to know what is what and where is where.Find an older lover who will teach you how to do the do correctly and things you wouldnt have even dreamed of.

Remember though,what works for one female isnt going to necassarily work for another.

Don't take any of what i say as an insult,i say it for your and your partners benefit as having a selfish and inexperienced lover is the worse than having no lover at all!
 

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"Women should stop using sex toys or atleast over using them, stop masturbating."

no, they shud just do it manually without a vibrator if they are lacking sensitivity in their clit,, also ive found personally that dildos do make a girl a bit looser, just like fingering a girl a bit beofre fucking will slighty loosener her pussy

"and yeah I was lucky to only meet the 4 percent who can cum from dick."
they were fakin

try doggy or cow girl 2 n rub her clit,, or use the vibrator since she uses one all the time
,, it not about how u make her cum, its about making her cum

She has a thick dildo - but she is tight enough, but yeah thats just another example of women ruining their bodies.

I'm not sure why women expect men to adjust to them.
 

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She has a thick dildo - but she is tight enough, but yeah thats just another example of women ruining their bodies.

I'm not sure why women expect men to adjust to them.

because women have pussy power,, fukcing bullshit,, because women can go n fuck whenever want , like most guys wud bone a random girl, if she in good shape, but not all girl wud bone a random guy. i duno my gf tell me it all the time,, like it up to them if u fukc,, cause as i guyu always have to give them what ur women wants... i duno i dont agrre completely with ym statement either tho

i dont want look stupid n ignorant infront of the ladies,, but princess tasha knows what shes talkin about
 

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Well yes it plainly your problem if she cannot orgasm through penetration as you're her sexual partner and plus you've posted a thread re: it.

Well actually you havnt met the whole 4% lol!

What exactly have women become by masturbating?

No,you are incorrect,most girls (i hate that term) do not orgasm through the g spot.See you DO have alot to learn but seem to think you know it all :p

My advice would be to take time out to really learn about the female anatomy and then and only then will you be able to pleasure the female in question without totally getting agitated and,to use your language,totally bollocksing it up!!

I'm alot older than you and i wasnt so aware when i was as young as you but due to listening to advice i am able to know what is what and where is where.Find an older lover who will teach you how to do the do correctly and things you wouldnt have even dreamed of.

Remember though,what works for one female isnt going to necassarily work for another.

Don't take any of what i say as an insult,i say it for your and your partners benefit as having a selfish and inexperienced lover is the worse than having no lover at all!
Thanks for your input - well appreciated.
 

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i like to have sensual sex its not all about cumming all the time ijust like to play for myself to and enjoy it its for me why do men think we have to cum all the time does it make you feel big? xx
 

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because women have pussy power,, fukcing bullshit,, because women can go n fuck whenever want , like most guys wud bone a random girl, if she in good shape, but not all girl wud bone a random guy. i duno my gf tell me it all the time,, like it up to them if u fukc,, cause as i guyu always have to give them what ur women wants... i duno i dont agrre completely with ym statement either tho

i dont want look stupid n ignorant infront of the ladies,, but princess tasha knows what shes talkin about
Women have no power unless you give them such power over you. :biggrin1:
 

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i like to have sensual sex its not all about cumming all the time ijust like to play for myself to and enjoy it its for me why do men think we have to cum all the time does it make you feel big? xx

I don't mind not making a woman cum but it's when she wants to cum but can't cum no matter how hard you try.

She could go on top and take control but still wouldn't be able to make herself cum - it just feels like one big waste of time.
 

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Maybe she can't cum cause of YOU! Because you put so much pressure on her that she has to cum within minutes or you'll get totally frustrated.
You know, women have one big G Spot: In their head.
If she's not relaxed, doesn't feel good with you and isn't turned on by you, you can do whatever you want and she'll never cum.
Maybe she is frustrated from the sex with you, and not vice versa. Ever thought about that?
 

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Maybe she can't cum cause of YOU! Because you put so much pressure on her that she has to cum within minutes or you'll get totally frustrated.
You know, women have one big G Spot: In their head.
If she's not relaxed, doesn't feel good with you and isn't turned on by you, you can do whatever you want and she'll never cum.
Maybe she is frustrated from the sex with you, and not vice versa. Ever thought about that?
true never make her focus on cuming, just let her enjoy what ur doing,, n dont stop doing it if u feel her liking it, , even if u r thinkin only about makn her cum, dnt let her know that when ur foolin around
 

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Maybe she can't cum cause of YOU! Because you put so much pressure on her that she has to cum within minutes or you'll get totally frustrated.
You know, women have one big G Spot: In their head.
If she's not relaxed, doesn't feel good with you and isn't turned on by you, you can do whatever you want and she'll never cum.
Maybe she is frustrated from the sex with you, and not vice versa. Ever thought about that?

I wouldn't know that because she can't make herself cum - I don't tell her she has a time limit but after making her come close 3-5 times I usually give up and go to bed because I don't think i'm the problem. She loves me. :biggrin1:
 

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I wouldn't know that because she can't make herself cum - I don't tell her she has a time limit but after making her come close 3-5 times I usually give up and go to bed because I don't think i'm the problem. She loves me. :biggrin1:
then the girl has issues of her own, ive been with girls i coudltn make cum from penetration,, she has to be comfortable with u enuf to allow herself to cum
 

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i've known plenty of girls who couldn't cum from penetration...we still had a blast between the sheets. cumming isn't the end all/be all of the sexual experience. stop focusing on that so much and just enjoy the journey. take the pressure off of both yourselves and just have FUN! also, it's not just about dick...God gave you a tongue and fingers for a reason. :p

anyone who says women should stop masturbating is no friend of mine. ;)

I have a hard time cumming, but that doesn't mean that I'm not enjoying the sensations of being deep fucked either. Yes, a man would have to stay on me for a while, but once I do cum, it's totally worth it. I love being fucked from behind and I'm able to make myself cum by playing with my clit, but they have to keep fucking me hard for me to achieve the mind-altering orgasm I'm having. For the record, I can squirt when I cum, but there have only been a few men who were able to get me to achieve this. I have a friend who said that she squirted 40 times in one night - I hate her! Any MEN up for the challenge here in Austin, Texas? ;-)

i'm curious to take up the gauntlet...but also frightened of being mauled when i look at your avatar. ;)
 

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Maybe she is frustrated from the sex with you, and not vice versa. Ever thought about that?

Abso-fucking-lutely. I'm sure to be flamed, but jesus, do you (OP) ever listen to yourself? Or maybe I should ask if you ever take time to listen to anyone BUT yourself. This almost smacks of trolling, because you sound like such a dumbass. You've already figured out what it takes to make her cum, so use your big head, not your little one. There are cockrings that have little vibes on them for her clit. Buy one. Or since she likes to buy the toys, have her puck her own. Be adventurous.

Me, first 5 years of sex, maybe 2 real orgasms. Then I found a lover who took time, explored, experimented, and left me slightly unconscious by the time we wore down.

Stop blaming her, she obviously knows how to please herself, now you need to learn. Or if you feel like it is ok to "give up and go to sleep" then you need to go away.
 
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Abso-fucking-lutely. I'm sure to be flamed, but jesus, do you (OP) ever listen to yourself? Or maybe I should ask if you ever take time to listen to anyone BUT yourself. This almost smacks of trolling, because you sound like such a dumbass. You've already figured out what it takes to make her cum, so use your big head, not your little one. There are cockrings that have little vibes on them for her clit. Buy one. Or since she likes to buy the toys, have her puck her own. Be adventurous.

Me, first 5 years of sex, maybe 2 real orgasms. Then I found a lover who took time, explored, experimented, and left me slightly unconscious by the time we wore down.

Stop blaming her, she obviously knows how to please herself, now you need to learn. Or if you feel like it is ok to "give up and go to sleep" then you need to go away.


Absoloutely spot on!!