women who claim size matters...

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This isn't just a girl thing, a lot of gay men talk about what they would do witha big cock, and how they hop ehe's huge. Then when it gets to the physical part....they are saying,"I can't, it hurts too much."

I'm more of the, if you put it on your plate you better eat it, kinda guy. I've never had "too big"...I don't think. But I've had uncomfortable (not enough lube, insults, too nice and stinky) are just a few.

As far as a woman goes, I don't see it being too different. When you talk to some, you can tell who has had "big ones" and who hasn't. The ones who have had it usually stay pretty quite about it. Most of the women know that if it's really big, at some point he's gonna try to shove it up their ass. And that's really gonna take a while to get use to.

My thoughts, don't make'em true or accurate...but until I see differ, it'll be true to me.
 

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It's not unusual at all. I peruse a lot of sex toy sites and it's not uncommon. Check 'em out for yourself. It'll change your assumptions about what women really want.

I've been looking at some of the more modern sex shops, especially those that focus on things women like (e.g. not a lot of straight porn DVDs and peep show booths) and it's pretty illuminating. If anything, the 3-5" insertable and 4 to 4.5" circumference toys are the most popular among women actually interested in their own enjoyment. All those thermos-sized monstrosities seem to be for men (including straight guys who just like to see a woman use one) or as gag gifts, and for those who actually use them it's almost never the only sex toy they use.

So that 'perfect penis' one is 5" around and 6" insertable (and that's going all the way to the balls, in practice it's less), in other words, it's basically just a little bit (not even noticeably) above average. You're also looking at the dildo section of ones actually shaped to look like penises, which tend to be a bit bigger than most toys since a super skinny, very short, or very bulbous-headed dildo could feel great but look strange if it's penis-shaped.
 

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Well i can tell u this my friend. I'm at 8 inches Bpel so Nbpel probably somewhere near you...and my gf can't take my cock at all which is quiet bummer since the girl i was with before i turned into a real big cock worshipper at the end of our relationship she could take dildos that are much bigger then me very easy which turned me on like hell. Anyway my GF really has a problem with my penis size. Sometimes she rips even though we are really carefull. Then we can't have sex for weeks and just like your GF and unlike my old GF she can't just cum from pure penetration and after she came she doesn't really want to have sex anymore. My point beeing is that I caught her talking about my cock with her friends and she brags about my size and so on....very weird bragging about it in one way and on the other side having to stop sex and starting to cry cause the pain gets too much. I still remember one of my first Girlfriends allways told me she had bigger before me and stuff like that and i really believed her since i was'nt that experienced with women or penis size yet. One night her best friend came to me and was on about how big my cock is and that she want's to try it since she's been told it's so huge. End of story i was a bad boyfriend and she was a bad friend so we had sex. I still don't know why she told me she had bigger before me probably like mentioned above she wanted to keep my ego down or something...but that was years ago we where both 16 mature women shouldn't do stuff like that.
 

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I've been looking at some of the more modern sex shops, especially those that focus on things women like (e.g. not a lot of straight porn DVDs and peep show booths) and it's pretty illuminating. If anything, the 3-5" insertable and 4 to 4.5" circumference toys are the most popular among women actually interested in their own enjoyment. All those thermos-sized monstrosities seem to be for men (including straight guys who just like to see a woman use one) or as gag gifts, and for those who actually use them it's almost never the only sex toy they use.

So that 'perfect penis' one is 5" around and 6" insertable (and that's going all the way to the balls, in practice it's less), in other words, it's basically just a little bit (not even noticeably) above average. You're also looking at the dildo section of ones actually shaped to look like penises, which tend to be a bit bigger than most toys since a super skinny, very short, or very bulbous-headed dildo could feel great but look strange if it's penis-shaped.

Having been readin lotsa dildo reviews for the last 20 mins I concur with this.

I did notice that on the really large dildos it was mostly gay men commenting/reviewing with the occasional rare woman.
 

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I'm gonna read more of those later.

I always wonder about what percentage of women/girls actually want something non-human going inside them when they're doing that anyway. I used to have to make my girlfriend put her fingers inside her when I was talking to her and they always ended up coming back out. :redface:

I wonder if maybe for that reason it's not a good indication of what size the majority prefers when having real intercourse. :confused:
 

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So, you're saying there's a connection between size and whether or not someone might try to go up your tail? ...interesting

(or is that just a variation of Murphy's law?)

No no no no, that's not what I am saying. Any size man is gonna wanna go back door. But the fact that it's big and may want to go back door, can scare a women off quickly. An dthat experience can get her thinking twice about wanting a BIG dick. Not all women.
 

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I'm gonna read more of those later.

I always wonder about what percentage of women/girls actually want something non-human going inside them when they're doing that anyway. I used to have to make my girlfriend put her fingers inside her when I was talking to her and they always ended up coming back out. :redface:

I wonder if maybe for that reason it's not a good indication of what size the majority prefers when having real intercourse. :confused:

Good thought, but no I think it's a great indication of size preferences, and imho the best data we have on the subject. Plenty of women won't masturbate with dildos at all, and I think vibrators are generally much more popular. I think it's a reasonable inference that anyone who buys a dildo is more interested in being penetrated than one who only uses a vibrator; if anything these data show more of how 'size matters' since it's based purely on size + shape and nothing else.
The sizes skew heavily to the average, and often the 'favourites' are the smaller ones. The difference here between the real thing and a dildo is that we all masturbate in ways that feel good to us, so I'm guessing small dildos are great because you'll know what you're doing.

Who knows, this might suggest the top %1 most woman-pleasing love-makers in the world are guys with small dicks who are really in tune to the women they're with and know what they're doing.
 

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I never really said I was 7" NBPEL. I am 7" with a little pressing, about the same as I can give her by thrusting, so I'm not claiming to be huge or anything.

And I've seen a guy she's been with, we almost had a threesome too! He's massive, at least 8" and super thick. I just don't understand how that can possibly be pleasurable when I'm causing all this pain..

One thing may be the timing. It's been a few years since she was with someone large, and honestly I feel like she was "looser" back then. If that makes any sense at all...
 

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It is def visual.

I'm a guy who is basically a bottom virgin but I feel more bottom. I've topped more and done a lot of vanilla stuff. In any case, I am addicted to big dick. I love the way it looks. I think its manly. And yeah I see the ability to take one as an accomplishment lol
Despite not being certain I can even take it and almost being a virgin...it hasn't stopped me from looking almost exclusivley for guys with big dicks.
 

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The odd thing is that she swears that size matters, which i don't doubt, but she's no masochist for pain. How can a larger cock be more pleasurable when my average size is so painful for her? We've tried talking about it, but she has no explanation..
I think it's the visual aspect to it.

Some might consider it a trophy also.


:bs2:

I'm also chiming in about 7" length NOT being average. It's larger than average.

Because we see it every day it seems average to the owner of the penis.
 
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Thanks for psoting this, I too had a girl that said size matters and that I should be bigger. I am not small but what she said kind of mind fucked me a little so I started jelqing because I thought she was right. And just like your girl, my ex would tell me to either stop, slow down, dont go so deep or tell me to go in a certain amount because she couldntl take it all at one time. But yet she wanted me to be BIGGER???

Am I missing something here? lol
 

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foreshortening perspective.
cruel trick of the eye.

unless Mr. Cute measured his girlie's ex for accuracy, his peen is going to look bigger.
if the Ex is actually larger.. the issue might be shape of penis.

is there a difference in curves? your peen's wides point? glans, base, mid-shaft? cut vs. intact might be a factor.

style of fucking...

a shift in her hormones *BC change, ovarian cysts, endo, various bacterial imbalances*... there are heaps of reason why larger might have at one point been preferable.

size mattering... yes, size matters. the right size for me is very important. i lurve my boy more than anything. still... for true.. i kinda wish his penis was smaller. :redface:

maybe she means a size minimum is important. like, you have to be this tall to ride? under a certain size isn't as pleasurable for her?

completely random eta: some women feel pressured to live up to a porn standard of sexuality. i'm guessing she is young, maybe she is just parroting back an attitude she picked up? same as dudes believing to be good lovers they must have a never failing yard of cock.
*neither being true facts*
 
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Yea really, I have no issue at all with those who prefer big dicks, that's fine, thats just the way you're built, and luckily there's a wide variety of shapes and sizes for everyone's enjoyment.

I just get confused with the mixed messages I'm getting. Her words are saying "I want more" and her pussy is shouting "Ow, No, stop!"

What's a man to do!? ~sigh~
 

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Mickey, very good points.

I'm thinking you're onto something with the birth control and hormones, since she wasn't on it when we first met.

As for our penises, his has mine beat in every dimension, I've seen him with my own eyes, it's a beast of a cock for sure. To the point where I wonder how the fuck he got it in her.

..yet with me it's painful.
 

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One thing may be the timing. It's been a few years since she was with someone large, and honestly I feel like she was "looser" back then. If that makes any sense at all...

It does make sense, and I had that experience with my wife after a prolonged medically driven celibacy. Once we were able to have sex again, we had some fit issues for a while. Then she adapted and her body views my size as normal now.

I'm sure it's not the only factor, but it may be a contributor. Either way, good luck.

FK
 

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I too had a girl that said size matters and that I should be bigger.
That's the part you're supposed to make up in your own head after they make some remotely related comment about your penis. If a girl actually comes out and says something like that you probably need to get some distance. Do the PE after you get the heck away from her, not for her. :wink:

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