women who claim size matters...
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Excellent point about orgasm first- fuck second. And not to be rude, but maybe there is something you are doing in your fucking method that is bothering her...But after an orgasm- by rubbing, mouth, etc,- my wife use to love getting fucked most...or was READY to get fucked ....and was much much looser...and I am far too small for her as it is, so I could tell the difference in icreased loosness..( so could she, often to her dissatisfaction)
Also, excitment, head play, foreplay etc...you know the drill...My wife also loves big ones ( use to be the size queen when she was younger...but now is very tight...yet she still insist bigger feels and works much better, especailly if fatter as opposed to longer...
I have seen her strugle with a modest sized dildo now, but before long, she was ready for a pounding...but even with my small member, various positions, times of the month, sexual excitment etc have caused her pain....so take a look at what , when and how you are doing it...she would have no reason to lie if she has, and you have, seen monster cocks that she has taken before...
I am certainly not qualitifed in fucking, i am not very good at it, which often produces the same response you are gettting....and its happened with other woman I have fucked ( or tried to) over the years....something doesnt sound quite right with your GF's conflict besides your size being too big..
good luck..
J
Also, excitment, head play, foreplay etc...you know the drill...My wife also loves big ones ( use to be the size queen when she was younger...but now is very tight...yet she still insist bigger feels and works much better, especailly if fatter as opposed to longer...
I have seen her strugle with a modest sized dildo now, but before long, she was ready for a pounding...but even with my small member, various positions, times of the month, sexual excitment etc have caused her pain....so take a look at what , when and how you are doing it...she would have no reason to lie if she has, and you have, seen monster cocks that she has taken before...
I am certainly not qualitifed in fucking, i am not very good at it, which often produces the same response you are gettting....and its happened with other woman I have fucked ( or tried to) over the years....something doesnt sound quite right with your GF's conflict besides your size being too big..
good luck..
J
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I think he means it was weird reading those views which contradict what he's heard from women in real life.
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a 7" cock ( assuming you are measuring actual penetrable length ) is not "average" It is the well above average....
moreover, cocks between 7 and 8 inches are rated by women as the size that is the most perfect blend of size, without being so big as to cause a lot of pain.
( PS- most guys claiming to have really big dicks are fudging on the numbers- they are between 7 and 8.5 of actual useable length )
So, first of all, your size is causing her pain because it is on the larger side, for her... so if she says size matters, then she may well be trying to compliment you.
second of all... pain is very often a function of position.
Try a variety of positions to find one where you hit the fornix and not the cervix. for example, from behind as you both lie on the bed on your sides...
Some positions like this one give the woman much better fine control of where you hit and how deeply you can go.
and you will find that as you start with the more comfortable positions, she will relax more and other postions will be more comfortable as the lovemaking unfolds.
moreover, cocks between 7 and 8 inches are rated by women as the size that is the most perfect blend of size, without being so big as to cause a lot of pain.
( PS- most guys claiming to have really big dicks are fudging on the numbers- they are between 7 and 8.5 of actual useable length )
So, first of all, your size is causing her pain because it is on the larger side, for her... so if she says size matters, then she may well be trying to compliment you.
second of all... pain is very often a function of position.
Try a variety of positions to find one where you hit the fornix and not the cervix. for example, from behind as you both lie on the bed on your sides...
Some positions like this one give the woman much better fine control of where you hit and how deeply you can go.
and you will find that as you start with the more comfortable positions, she will relax more and other postions will be more comfortable as the lovemaking unfolds.
Wowee, great first post.. And it only took 5 years to come up with that...
(seriously why does lpsg have so many phantom members?)
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Well, it is a sex forum where most members have naked pictures of themselves up, and you need an account to see them, so...
Drifterwood
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Did anyone else read this thread as "I am coming to the realisation that I am dating a dumb chick with whom I have bad sex."
Did you break up yet?
Did you break up yet?
For every boy that claims he is packing a big dick and is not, there is a girl that claims she likes big dick but cannot take it.
