In my experience, as I've gotten older and relationships have gone from being all about sex to being about much more, the enthusiasm from my lady friends has died down. I think as you get older and there is more going on in a relationship, the wants/desires of guys and the wants/desires of women diverge. Guys (or me!) still want to have hot, sweaty, horny, dirty fun.
Girls, at least those I've been with, have wanted less and less of that as things have gotten more serious. Romantic, fun, passionate sex, but nothing too wild or crazy.
High school and college...yup, got it all.
Post-college, less and less. I just think it's the natural course for many women.
However, I will say that just a few years ago I had a female fuck friend who was 12 years older and she was the hottest and wildest I've ever been with. We weren't in a relationship though, just fucking. That might have affected her behavior. She loved to suck cock and get spurted on.
I think when a relationship is a long term one and things like marriage, home ownership, kids, etc. come up...the days of porno-style sex are numbered. I do miss some of it. But then again, I wouldn't necessarily want to do some of the things I've done in the past with a woman I was going to/was married to.
I think when you are younger you want to try out what you've seen in porno. But, if you are in a committed relationship I don't think it's the same desire. So much in modern porn is about humiliation and just plain odd or gross. If you want to do those things with the woman helping raise your children, well, that's kind of odd to me.
Yeah, it's your life. But if I get married I don't really see myself being keen on gagging or gaping or doing ATM with her. Call me crazy
Then again, never really been into those.
Sex is natural and healthy. But if you are in a long-term relationship and still after porno-style sex, I think that says a lot about how strong the relationship is. Exploring your sexuality together is one thing; remaking pornos is another.
Again, just how I feel about this, not condemning anyone else for how they choose to live.
Girls, at least those I've been with, have wanted less and less of that as things have gotten more serious. Romantic, fun, passionate sex, but nothing too wild or crazy.
High school and college...yup, got it all.
Post-college, less and less. I just think it's the natural course for many women.
However, I will say that just a few years ago I had a female fuck friend who was 12 years older and she was the hottest and wildest I've ever been with. We weren't in a relationship though, just fucking. That might have affected her behavior. She loved to suck cock and get spurted on.
I think when a relationship is a long term one and things like marriage, home ownership, kids, etc. come up...the days of porno-style sex are numbered. I do miss some of it. But then again, I wouldn't necessarily want to do some of the things I've done in the past with a woman I was going to/was married to.
I think when you are younger you want to try out what you've seen in porno. But, if you are in a committed relationship I don't think it's the same desire. So much in modern porn is about humiliation and just plain odd or gross. If you want to do those things with the woman helping raise your children, well, that's kind of odd to me.
Yeah, it's your life. But if I get married I don't really see myself being keen on gagging or gaping or doing ATM with her. Call me crazy
Sex is natural and healthy. But if you are in a long-term relationship and still after porno-style sex, I think that says a lot about how strong the relationship is. Exploring your sexuality together is one thing; remaking pornos is another.
Again, just how I feel about this, not condemning anyone else for how they choose to live.