I enjoy good company with women all different ages, at my morning class at the gym. I have to say these ladies are quite funny and full of life. Their laughter is contagious. One of the topics today was eating ice cream and the pleasure it brings. Before I knew it the conversation turned to sex. One lady said to another what she eats ice cream in place of having sex. To that the class just laughed, especially to 'know' now when they saw her husband that he wasn't getting any. One by one they all agreed, ice cream was so much better than sex any way. They were almost gleeful with sharing details how sex just was not for them and too bad, so sad for the husbands. Here are these vibrant women; I would have thought their vibrancy was due to a full life that included great sex. What is it with women that do not enjoy being with man? Is it that they and/or their partner is only skimming the surface? Have they been cheated from the pleasure that woman's body is capable of? Now my intimate life with my ex husband was sorely lacking, but I still ached to have that intimate contact, even if it was only seconds and I never climaxed. To feel someone else's breath on my body, to have their skin brush up against me, to smell the scent of sex in the air … for me it was a necessity. And now that I have been exposed to all (maybe, who knows there may be more that is yet to be discovered ... oh how yummy that thought is) of the mind blowing things MY body can do and the things I want do when I am experiencing such incredible heights of pleasure, I can't imagine ever desiring ice cream over the touch of a man. To go without (six months) is bad enough, but to be happy to be without or to purposely try to avoid? I just don't get it. So why do you think there are women that don't enjoy sex? Is it hormonal? Are there men that don't enjoy sex? Are we at lpsg deviants?