whatireallywant
Sexy Member
Yes...I think SP made a good point there - with the idea of meeting in the middle, so to speak.
Some of the women I've known who don't like sex would do this, as they say they will have sex "to please him". I think it's a bummer that they don't enjoy it, but I think it's their upbringings (the women who said that were from strict, repressive families) My upbringing was not quite as strict and repressive as theirs, although I did get some of the "anti-sex" stuff, and the "men want sex all the time" stuff growing up (which made me wonder what was wrong with me when I wanted sex more than the men in my life did - I thought, "Am I really that unattractive that they don't want me?".) I was a rebel though, especially about gender roles and gender expectations. Not just about sex, but everything. My career choices, hobbies, even the toys I played with as a kid (hated dolls, liked cars, trucks, construction sets, etc.)
Some of the women I've known who don't like sex would do this, as they say they will have sex "to please him". I think it's a bummer that they don't enjoy it, but I think it's their upbringings (the women who said that were from strict, repressive families) My upbringing was not quite as strict and repressive as theirs, although I did get some of the "anti-sex" stuff, and the "men want sex all the time" stuff growing up (which made me wonder what was wrong with me when I wanted sex more than the men in my life did - I thought, "Am I really that unattractive that they don't want me?".) I was a rebel though, especially about gender roles and gender expectations. Not just about sex, but everything. My career choices, hobbies, even the toys I played with as a kid (hated dolls, liked cars, trucks, construction sets, etc.)