I know this thread has been done to death. Looking at recent threads, I didn't see one on this topic, though I've seen it before. So I'm starting another one. Somebody asked me if I was a slut. I asked this person to define slut and was given the definition "A woman who gives sex freely and often" Who agrees with this statement? I am married, an open marriage and that means I can fuck who I want, when I want. When I exercise this right, this agreement between my husband and I, I was called a cheater and a slut. First of all, my relationship is just that, my relationship. Not up for judgement by anyone. If my husband and I are happy and safe, that is what is important. The issue with being called a slut: Of course I give sex freely, I'm not a hooker. Easily? No, I am picky. If I see a man I want to fuck, and we have chemistry, I fuck him. Why? Because I love sex. It is more than Ok for me to love sex. It is healthy that I know my body, what I like and how much I want. I want to be satisfied sexually and as long as I am taking care of business, then there is nothing wrong with it. If I was neglecting my child, my marriage, my job and other responsibilities in order to have sex, that would be wrong. Having sex and lots of it is not wrong, as long as I am safe and happy. If that means I am a slut, then guess what GUYS?!?! I'm a fucking slut!