Women who know what to do...

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Imported, Sep 8, 2004.

  1. Imported

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    wvalady1968: Max recently wrote, "Just one other thought about the topic .. this is a two way street, or ought to be. Anything that makes one partner feel like the consumer and the other the performer of sex is bad. As SillySally implied, it is just that .. a partnership. She needs "to know what she's doing" as well. "

    Okay, most of us have learned what our lovers like, which buttons work and which don't. And open communication is ALWAYS vital, but for the moment, assume that you're with a new lover who doesn't know you but is willing to try anything you've ever fantasized about.

    What would you tell her? How would you instruct her?
     
  2. Xin

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    I'd tell her the truth, and gudie her through anything she couldn't quite get the hang of first time, without making her feel stupid or inadequate.
    Most of all, I'd make sure I knew what she liked. In order to enjoy it myself, I first need to know that my partner is satisfied.
     
  3. D_Humper E Bogart

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    I would need to make sure that she actually wants the sharp end or the blunt end... :rolleyes:

    Okay, okay, I'm not violent or into S&M, but you never know...memes are a wonderfull thing.
     
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