Ok, so being that I'm not the "dating" kind of person really, recently it occurred to me that I think its because I'm nervous/scared. Well, this girl recently broke up with her boyfriend and her friend makes it obvious to ask her out and that she has a thing for me. The problem I have is I seriously over think everything. "What if we have nothing to talk about, what if I make an ass of myself, what if I'm boring bla bla bla" and then I scare myself shitless and forget about it. All my friends whom are girls always tell me that so many girls have found me attractive and I just never acted on it or anything. I'm tired of doing that and I wanna be comfortable enough to simply ask girls out and have fun. Also, it makes it even worse when the girl is gorgeous (which the girl is) and I just get intimidated. Anyone have any pointers to get over this or does this describe you at some point in life?