Women's ability to estimate

[yesitsbig]

It's like when a guys guesses that a woman is 38FF - OK, it's just that it isn't a real size. I just think it's funny when guys write about bra size and have no idea the way sizing works. At least sizing up a cock is length and girth only.

I had some guy just tonight get all bent cuz I said his dick wasn't 8x6. Yes it was above average but I'd honestly have to see a measuring tape wrapped on that dick by my own two hands to believe it was 8. And if he's 8 then Guy-Jin needs to remeasure cuz you're a good inch or two longer.

The thing I don't understand is if a woman calls a man on a lie about how big he says he is, why does he get so upset?

The boss's drunken wife leaving office party with husband "Oh look honey it snowed almost a foot."
Slightly annoyed boss "Sweetheart, it only snowed about 4 inches."
Drunken wife "then why have you been telling me this much is 8 inches for 20 years?" holding up hand to indicate about 3-4 inches

Good point, Honey.

I once heard sex is like snow...you never know how many inches you're going to get or how long it will last. :biggrin1:

I don't lie about my cock size because I would be embarrassed if a woman calls me on it. Most women think I'm nine inches until I tell them I'm eight. They look confused because, I bet, the last guy she was with probably lied about his size. Funny thing is, once I dated a woman who thought I was 6 inches because the last guy she dated had a measured 11 inch penis. Go figure.

 

[transformer_99]

It's a lot like going for a first down in NFL football on a 4th and short. Use one foot of the other to mark the forward progress and it's the difference between a first down or turning the ball over on downs. :biggrin1:

Besides, most women think that a penis is at least a foot long, that is it's really as long as one of their feet and they usually have small feet. :smile:

 

[transformer_99]

Well, as long as they lie they can't complain if we misjudge the distance while parking the car - "honey, you always tell me this |---| is 10 inches"...

Hey, if you're not sure how much distance is between you and the other car, I'd prefer you go find a space that isn't as challenging. Others didn't park there so that you could use/hit their car to know when to stop. But as long as it's your car, I have no issues with you destroying it as long as you pay for the damage and insurance increases. I'd much rather you tell me I've got a small dick than hit my car. :smile:

 

[HamYai]

Forget women's ability to estimate.

I went thru most of my teen and adult life thinking I was at best (but probably below) average, cuz guys I saw in the gym-shower and on porn films seemed huge, by comparison to my own.

It's all down to perspective and it's only since the internet and getting involved with groupsex where even the guys were starting to say to me "what's wrong with your head that you can't see it - Do you not see how fkn big that thing is, compared to ours?" that I started to get an idea of size and its estimates.

(Still don't seem big to me, though. Just seems, sort of, normal).

So if I can't get it right, I ain't about to start slagging the women off for not doing so - especially as they don't even have a point of reference, like I do.

 

[TinyPrincess]

I'm gonna take you up on that, and say around about 32(30?)C-D, based on the one underside shot in your gallery.

Great guess - especially, when you consider I've actually written my bra size right under the picture you mention... duh!!! :tongue:

They usually see it coming and stop first.

Lick our mouths and jump on it... :biggrin1:

 

[modestlyhung]

I think it's interesting when you find objects to measure that see how they measure up and compare that to penis size. Mine is maybe just over 6" around at the shaft. Looking at a cardboard paper towel I'd think that would be something pretty thick to insert into a vagina... it's only 5.5" around. Cool!

Another time I was at a neighbor's and he had this narly looking cucumber that SEEMED really thick at one point. Me and him and his wife laughed because it clearly looked like a sex toy. I discreetly picked it up and put my thumb and index around it and found it's not as thick as me. Double cool!

I would have had NO IDEA simply through visual mediums and this is my own dick we're talking about.

 

[PerfectlySexy]

A question for the men: Given that women tend to overestimate, if asked by a woman for your stats do you tell them honestly or play to their overestimation?

For me, the women that have commented, not many, have put me at over 9 inches, which is off by about 1.5-2 inches or so (I'm a bit over 7.5). So, hypothetical situation that word gets around about your "9 inch penis" and a woman comes up and asks "how big is it really?" Do you say, "well, actually, women tend to overestimate by 2 inches or so," and risk them going away disappointed? I think I'd rather not correct them and play it off, "Whatever you've heard is true," or even better, "You'll have to find out for yourself."

And then, for the women here who have dealt with men who have exaggerated, did you ever think they may have exaggerated assuming that you were like most women and didn't really know how to judge size and figured saying that they were "6 inches" wouldn't seal the deal?

 

[Capt_obivous]

Great guess - especially, when you consider I've actually written my bra size right under the picture you mention... duh!!! :tongue:

I honestly didn't read the comments before i guessed

 

[OhCanada]

YouTube - Too big or not too big? That is the question.

Thought this was funny. The part in yoga class I thought related to this post!

 

[bigjpgh]

A few girls that I have been with, or have shown my dick to, in conversation ebfore hand said that the biggest they had seen or had was 10", one even said 11". now, I know as well as you do that this is very very rare, but not out of the question, so i would just say something like, wow, that is really impressive. im not that long, but i have some decent size myself. but then, when i showed them, they all, except for one girl, said that i was much bigger than the "10"" guy they had had. the one who actually had had a 10" guy said that i was much thicker, which was also good. so in the end i had to explain that, no, i wasn't over 10" long, the other guys had just been exagerating their size. most didnt seem to mind, they just liked finding a bigger one. works for me!

 

[Katiecav_34D]

We may not be able to tell the exact length, but we are ab le to comapre pretty good. We know if it's bigger or smaller than others we have seen

 

[transformer_99]

We may not be able to tell the exact length, but we are able to compare pretty good. We know if it's bigger or smaller than others we have seen

True and that may not even be a good thing for the woman that is branding/rating any given package as large, small or in between ? Not every woman wants to be bored out like an old Chevy V-8. Yet others may be seeking that ? To be honest, some of these porn starlets that have had their buttholes ripped open ("gape that ass"), that's gotta be one of the most disgusting things I've ever seen. Judge for yourself, but this no less repulsing than anyone accidentally becoming dismembered or a bad case of hemorrhoids or whatever makes you squeamish ?

 

[B_bigbanana]

LOL...nice. I'm a guy and I KNOW most men do lie about their size...among other things in life.

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

#1 rule is to always guess a little bigger then you really think ladies. Their ego loves it and they work harder to make you believer that extra inch really exists :wink:

 

[TinyPrincess]

#1 rule is to always guess a little bigger then you really think ladies. Their ego loves it and they work harder to make you believer that extra inch really exists :wink:

So true...

 

[javyn]

It's true. Women are not good at estimating measurements or depth perception. Don't start with some knee-jerk rants here trying to start a NOW rally ladies. It's a scientifically proven fact. Just like women being bad with directions is a proven fact, men are better because of iron deposits in the face (nose especially) that kind of acts as a natural compass.

 

[D_Della Doubledees]

My hand is exactly 7.5 inches from the tip of my middle finger to the line on my wrist. When gripping something my palm is just under 3-1/2" wide and when I wrap my hand around something, my index finger just touches my thumb at 6". I was in my late 20's when I figured that out.

DAMN. That's smart thinking. It's like having a ruler with you at all times. Clever, clever girl.

 

[TinyPrincess]

I honestly didn't read the comments before i guessed

Ok, Capt. Let's say 7.5x6.5 - 7.75x6.75...

BTW, there seems to be a mismatch in the girth between the pics where you grab around your cock and the one where you hold three fingers over it.

 

[Capt_obivous]

Ok, Capt. Let's say 7.5x6.5 - 7.75x6.75...

BTW, there seems to be a mismatch in the girth between the pics where you grab around your cock and the one where you hold three fingers over it.

I could only say that the angle the photo was taken from was a factor, as its not perfectly cylindrical it will look thicker/thinner from different angles.

You're a little bit generous with those measurements, but still pretty close Its about 7x6

 

[TinyPrincess]

I could only say that the angle the photo was taken from was a factor, as its not perfectly cylindrical it will look thicker/thinner from different angles.

You're a little bit generous with those measurements, but still pretty close Its about 7x6

A 7x6 cock being as wide as three fingers still seems very odd - angle or not...