My wife has no sex drive, being on anti depressants, blood pressure meds, and thinking she is overweight, well after 9+ years of celibacy I am running out of ways to keep myself happy sexually and when I bring up sex to her, she gives me that "Don't even go there" look...I have been faithful, and thank goodness I have found some very sensual women here who like me writing what I think about when it comes to sex, gives me a release of my thoughts and I love their responses back....I have a hope, there is a new thyroid med out that may take care of some of her problems, so maybe medicine can help her sex drive since medication destroyed it...All I know I am too young to be without sex and I miss the intimacy and physical contact....On Initiating sex my wife was the Initiator, she would walk up behind me put her boobs against my back and then reach up between my legs and give me a crotch massage, and then lead me into the bed room and then have her way with me....I sure do miss being raped, oh yea I forgot its not rape if you are willing