Women's interest in sex and initiating it

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Speaking of toys, glad to see you have pet names, they are a great way to initiate sex and slowing bring the lady to her first orgasm. I have always been one that enjoys giving pleasure. It actually gets me more aroused with the lady not even having to provide my cock with any stimulation.

SprinkleMe, you can bring your toys over anytime. :)

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Packin my toys & camera right now. ;)
 

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Too bad there isn't an "adjust sexual drive" control we can adjust on ourselves. Many times an otherwise idyllic relationship gets fucked-or not-right down the crapper because of the frustration of differing sex drives.

I want people to come with signage declaring their sex drive. Then we could just know who NOT to start something with. Your idea sounds somewhat nicer (although I ain't turning down MY sex drive - he'd have to turn his up).
 

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I'm with you subgirrl!!!! Turn UP the HEAT please!!!

I want people to come with signage declaring their sex drive. Then we could just know who NOT to start something with. Your idea sounds somewhat nicer (although I ain't turning down MY sex drive - he'd have to turn his up).
 

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I want people to come with signage declaring their sex drive. Then we could just know who NOT to start something with. Your idea sounds somewhat nicer (although I ain't turning down MY sex drive - he'd have to turn his up).

Don't get me wrong, I love my sex drive-probably because I enjoy sex so damn much but it's frustrating that in general women aren't wired the way a lot of guys are-or most women here on the Lippy Penile Surgeon General. I'm more than willing to try and get my girl in the mood, but there are many times when it still fizzles out. Makes me feel a bit undesirable.
 

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From what friends have said, there seems to be a lot of truth in this, although I'm guessing things may be a bit different for a lot of the women on LPSG

This place is somewhat skewed that way, which is why I like it. Birds of the same feather fuck together.:smile:
 

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Don't get me wrong, I love my sex drive-probably because I enjoy sex so damn much but it's frustrating that in general women aren't wired the way a lot of guys are-or most women here on the Lippy Penile Surgeon General. I'm more than willing to try and get my girl in the mood, but there are many times when it still fizzles out. Makes me feel a bit undesirable.

Believe me, I do know how you feel. I've only ever met one man IRL (plus one other) who has a sex drive to match mine.

And I felt like total crap when I was being rejected on a regular basis by my ex. I'm convinced it contributed to the development of and helped maintain my depression.

This place is somewhat skewed that way, which is why I like it. Birds of the same feather fuck together.:smile:

I do love that saying :biggrin1:.
 

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Believe me, I do know how you feel. I've only ever met one man IRL (plus one other) who has a sex drive to match mine.

And I felt like total crap when I was being rejected on a regular basis by my ex. I'm convinced it contributed to the development of and helped maintain my depression.



I do love that saying :biggrin1:.




finding a person with high sex drive ( especially a woman ) has been pretty tricky for me. Iev always had high sex drive and when the person does not respond it can make you feel like crap .
 
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RawDog, I adore you. You and your wife are just a lucky fucking couple! Pun intended!

I'm looking for the bird of my same feather....

This place is somewhat skewed that way, which is why I like it. Birds of the same feather fuck together.:smile:
 

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i've been lucky so far.. my relationships have been a good match libido wise.

mmm of the folks i've gotten nekkid with that started out on a rung lower smex drive ladder, have always amped up their game to keep pace.

my horny is contagious :biggrin:
 

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i've been lucky so far.. my relationships have been a good match libido wise.

mmm of the folks i've gotten nekkid with that started out on a rung lower smex drive ladder, have always amped up their game to keep pace.

my horny is contagious :biggrin:

I wish I had your ability to infect others :tongue:.
 

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i've been lucky so far.. my relationships have been a good match libido wise.

mmm of the folks i've gotten nekkid with that started out on a rung lower smex drive ladder, have always amped up their game to keep pace.

my horny is contagious :biggrin:


I want my horny to be contagious too!!!
 

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My wife has no sex drive, being on anti depressants, blood pressure meds, and thinking she is overweight, well after 9+ years of celibacy I am running out of ways to keep myself happy sexually and when I bring up sex to her, she gives me that "Don't even go there" look...I have been faithful, and thank goodness I have found some very sensual women here who like me writing what I think about when it comes to sex, gives me a release of my thoughts and I love their responses back....I have a hope, there is a new thyroid med out that may take care of some of her problems, so maybe medicine can help her sex drive since medication destroyed it...All I know I am too young to be without sex and I miss the intimacy and physical contact....On Initiating sex my wife was the Initiator, she would walk up behind me put her boobs against my back and then reach up between my legs and give me a crotch massage, and then lead me into the bed room and then have her way with me....I sure do miss being raped, oh yea I forgot its not rape if you are willing :)
 

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I can't have a sexual relationship unless the girl starts it. I'm sick of girls expecting me to initiate it all the time, and then if I don't (I obviously lose interest if they are this unkeen) they complain.

Annoys.
 

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My wife has no sex drive, being on anti depressants, blood pressure meds, and thinking she is overweight, well after 9+ years of celibacy I am running out of ways to keep myself happy sexually and when I bring up sex to her, she gives me that "Don't even go there" look...I have been faithful, and thank goodness I have found some very sensual women here who like me writing what I think about when it comes to sex, gives me a release of my thoughts and I love their responses back....I have a hope, there is a new thyroid med out that may take care of some of her problems, so maybe medicine can help her sex drive since medication destroyed it...All I know I am too young to be without sex and I miss the intimacy and physical contact....On Initiating sex my wife was the Initiator, she would walk up behind me put her boobs against my back and then reach up between my legs and give me a crotch massage, and then lead me into the bed room and then have her way with me....I sure do miss being raped, oh yea I forgot its not rape if you are willing :)


Man, I sure hope it works out for you. Stress and meds have kinda put my bunny in a wietd place so sex has been scarce lately buy I KNOW she will come back around. And when she does I better hold the fuck on, cause when she's in it she's fucking IN IT. Just have patience bro. I'm sure you will work things out. Are you two going to couples therapy? Maybe that might help rekindle some of that spark. Sometimes people get so out of practice they need some coaching.
 

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*long slow lick* Did that help the horny along? Of course, the effect won't be complete until Ms Infectious herself contributes :tongue:.


*shudder* I either need to leave work or find a cold shower lol. The mrs is gonna get it today! I was already peaked out horny as hell! And I eagerly await deh kitteh!! Rawr!