I'm glad this thread gut bumped so I could enjoy it. Heck, I'd love to get a little bumping myself.
Differing sex drives is what turned me into a philanderer after 30 years of marriage. My wife has physical disabilities that limit our sex life. After a dozen years or so of me trying to initiate and getting, "sounds nice, but...", I finally started looking elsewhere. In my 18 months or so of infidelity I have made several new female friends, primarily via AdultFriendFinder, all of whom share my level of sex drive. Unfortunately, since these are not LTRs but instead FWBs I can only occasionally meet with, the question of who initiates is never answered as it's always pretty much a mutual ripping off of each other's clothes.
I envy those of you who have a mate who will walk up and take what she wants. I envy those of you who have a mate that would respond to you doing the same to her.
And I LOVE the wordplay and flirting that goes on here! It is SO erotic to read things written cleverly and with as much apparent horniness as I live my days enveloped in.