Women's interest in sex and initiating it

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I'm glad this thread gut bumped so I could enjoy it. Heck, I'd love to get a little bumping myself.

Differing sex drives is what turned me into a philanderer after 30 years of marriage. My wife has physical disabilities that limit our sex life. After a dozen years or so of me trying to initiate and getting, "sounds nice, but...", I finally started looking elsewhere. In my 18 months or so of infidelity I have made several new female friends, primarily via AdultFriendFinder, all of whom share my level of sex drive. Unfortunately, since these are not LTRs but instead FWBs I can only occasionally meet with, the question of who initiates is never answered as it's always pretty much a mutual ripping off of each other's clothes.

I envy those of you who have a mate who will walk up and take what she wants. I envy those of you who have a mate that would respond to you doing the same to her.

And I LOVE the wordplay and flirting that goes on here! It is SO erotic to read things written cleverly and with as much apparent horniness as I live my days enveloped in.
 

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I rarely initiate sex with words. It's touches, dress up, "naps", and sometimes words, but not that often. I have sent him text messages and pictures before. We don't do that anymore because his phone is provided by his company and I realized that was a bad idea. He doesn't think they check his activity, but who knows? Now, when we take pics, we put them on the computer and leave one up as the desktop background as a surprise.
 

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I'm glad this thread gut bumped so I could enjoy it. Heck, I'd love to get a little bumping myself.

Differing sex drives is what turned me into a philanderer after 30 years of marriage. My wife has physical disabilities that limit our sex life. After a dozen years or so of me trying to initiate and getting, "sounds nice, but...", I finally started looking elsewhere. In my 18 months or so of infidelity I have made several new female friends, primarily via AdultFriendFinder, all of whom share my level of sex drive. Unfortunately, since these are not LTRs but instead FWBs I can only occasionally meet with, the question of who initiates is never answered as it's always pretty much a mutual ripping off of each other's clothes.

I envy those of you who have a mate who will walk up and take what she wants. I envy those of you who have a mate that would respond to you doing the same to her.

And I LOVE the wordplay and flirting that goes on here! It is SO erotic to read things written cleverly and with as much apparent horniness as I live my days enveloped in.

Queries (and feel free to respond via private message if you prefer):

How old were you when you married? What type of AFF member are you? Are these "female friends" single, married, or a blend of both?

Just curious. Thanks.
 

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I rarely initiate sex with words. It's touches, dress up, "naps", and sometimes words, but not that often. I have sent him text messages and pictures before. We don't do that anymore because his phone is provided by his company and I realized that was a bad idea. He doesn't think they check his activity, but who knows? Now, when we take pics, we put them on the computer and leave one up as the desktop background as a surprise.

That's all pretty hot stuff though, wish my girlfriend did this.