All right. I have noticed a few "tricks" the women here have employed to cut down on the harrasment they get from well... they know who they are. Should women who come on to this site be given a "guide" so to speak to learn how to navigate these sharky waters? Or just to let them know what to expect. It seems common sense, but maybe sense is not so common. Dolfette and others seems to have some of these tricks down, but I am sure she had to learn them: -How to use the ignore button -How to turn off the PM function -How to make yourself invisable so people will not start PMing you if they see you are logged on. -Strategic use of tag lines or avatars to make yourself unattractive. -Dealing with stalkers -Not using an email that people will find you outside of here. -How to get them off your back -Any others? Should female members get some sort of "kit" or guide when coming her to make their stay more enjoyable. I know the PMsing sticky is here but that is pages long. Maybe a PM by a female moderator when they first join with all this info. I hate to think we lose members because of this. Just a thought. What do you all think?