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First let me remind anyone reading this I'm posting in Ask a woman. Only women can respond to questions. As the rules state, men please don't post. Having said that, ladies not asking for "detailed" experiences just if this exist or happens.

In several men's forums questions are asked about circle jerks, bath houses/spas, jack off clubs. Are there such things exclusively for woman ? Not asking about things like swingers clubs where men are allowed.
Just places where it's exclusively for women regardless of sexual orientation. I've lived in major cities and haven't heard of such places. When I asked personal friends (str8, lesbian) you'd have thought I asked if they had bestiality yellow_giggle.gif
. Again regardless of sexual orientation have you been ? Does it even exist, would you go if it did?
 

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Not open to women of all sexual orientations, no.

I've been to queer women only sexual/kink spaces.

Women really ain't the bean tappin' circle type.

ETA: I have known of all inclusive female sexuality workshop exploration spaces. But the spaces have a very specific vibe and someone showing up wanting to watch other women masturbate would be run off. More empowerment and exploration, less exhibitionism/voyeurism vibe.
 
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There are some women only (including transgender women) events at a sex positive community center/dungeon and the surrounding community for LGBTQ+. There are also some femdom specific events where the only male identifying individuals allowed are those who are serving tea, cooking, etc.

I've never heard of a female equivalent to a circle jerk or masturbation club. I would have less than zero interest if there was one.

I've thought the femdom events might be entertaining, but thus far haven't attended.
 

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Never heard of such a thing. Never sought out such things either. Personally, can’t see it being something in high demand. Not for sexual purpose anyway.

There are certainly spas for women only, but there is nothing sexual going on. I’ve been to parties that were women only - again, nothing sexual.
 
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ETA: I have known of all inclusive female sexuality workshop exploration spaces. But the spaces have a very specific vibe and someone showing up wanting to watch other women masturbate would be run off. More empowerment and exploration, less exhibitionism/voyeurism vibe.
I knew those exist and quite common in larger cities where it's a learning experience, right?
 
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I knew those exist and quite common in larger cities where it's a learning experience, right?

Yeah. Lots of support, lots of encouragement, lots of working on and deconstructing shame/embarrassment. Gives women a chance to talk about taboo issues. Lots of times toys are sold, and women can touch/examine before they buy.

It's like a Tupperware party, meets Women's study, meets ladies night.
 

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Oh, I have been to a sex toy party. Very much like a Tupperware party. Snacks and wine. But there certainly wasn’t any sex play between the women, just honest talk about pleasure and some educational stuff. Private buying of the toys.
 

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Oh, I have been to a sex toy party. Very much like a Tupperware party. Snacks and wine. But there certainly wasn’t any sex play between the women, just honest talk about pleasure and some educational stuff. Private buying of the toys.
I've been to those. The stuff is always so overpriced. I buy a little to support a friend.

I have one friend with whom I learned to kiss, discovered my own orgasm, and tried to teach her to give herself an orgasm. I cannot imagine having had this relationship with anyone else. Ours is the oldest and closest of all my friendships. She jokes that she tickled my feet in 1979. That is possible. I was born in 1980 though. I'm sure my mother let her touch her belly.

I did masturbate with one other friend. It wasn't what I wanted to do though. I wanted to see if she had any interest in me sitting on her face, but there were several obstacles. Her brother is a very close friend, like a brother to me. Her most recent ex at the time was another fairly close friend of mine from high school. I had my period. But most importantly, she was high. I'm not touching someone for the first time unless they are sober, or already expressed enthusiastic interest before they stopped being sober. So, when she flirted with me, and I asked her about her porn collection and she actually started playing it, I did not let her feel me up, and I did not kiss her or stroke her skin and hair like I wanted. I did eventually agree to get under the covers with her and watch the DVD while we touched ourselves.

And that's it. No women I know talk to me about masturbating with other women. It's not something I'm interested in repeating.
 
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Ladies thank you for responding and adding to the conversation. At first I was almost worried you'd think I was not asking a serious question. I'm a predominantly gay male w/some bi tendencies so not trying to be creepy/pervy by asking the question. Just trying to having a realistic view of how the sexes are "wired" so to speak.

@Scarletbegonia several years ago I qualified to enter/contestant IML but didn't. I've gone several times and know lot's of fetish/kink parties happen. But that's a whole different topic yellow_giggle.gif


I hope more women of LPSG will join the conversation, be respectful of replies and share thoughts/views.
Again men if your reading please don't reply. Respectfully I'm not asking your opinion or thoughts. If one of the ladies want's to invite you to join the conversation I'm sure she will let it be known.










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