HiddenLacey
Cherished Member
If the bf had just on his own started getting rougher and rougher with me during any sex and he never brought it up with me during any discussion in any way, I think at some point I'd worry about him. I don't think it would have been cool with me. I'd bring it up and demand to talk about it. Except I don't think it would be a sexy sexy talk. It'd be more like, "Honey, you're acting in a way that's making me worried."
Yes so at that point I would do the same thing and bring it up and tell him. This is hurting me or making me uncomfortable etc. I guess sometimes they wouldn't know and maybe they would THINK that we like it and keep getting rougher. I think in the end it's our responsibility to tell them yes or no. So I do think that someone could be rough with me and I wouldn't get offended I would simply tell him if it was too much.