so you're just insisting that your chosen mode of communication is superior to mine, despite the fact that it has served me well and without major misunderstanding for decades?
no comment.
No, not at all! It's not superior at all! I wasn't talking about you. All these guys aren't going to be having sex with
you.
I trust you that it works for you and if the guys were actually only going to be having sex with you, then I'd say, non-verbal works, no matter the level of violence!
I was talking about what I think men should do in this situation, where they're going to be having sex with someone who may not be like you. I wouldn't say, well Dolfette is good at non-verbal communication, so I trust that anyone else would be, so don't worry about talking to the woman you're going to have sex with in this situation because if she's good at it, so you should assume everyone else is also.
That's sort of like saying, well Enid's never told a lie, so trust everyone else not to lie because Enid doesn't. That doesn't work. It's no slander on Enid, it just doesn't work as universal advice because there are a few exceptions, especially when really bad things could result from just not being more cautious.