Women's Opinion: VPL in slacks

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  1. Nyseguy70

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    The other day, I wore a new pair of slacks into the office. I really like them. Hugo Boss, very light and drape wonderfully. Anyway, throughout the morning, I "caught" a number of women checking out my groin. It wasn't until I went the the bathroom around lunch and discovered why. The slacks had a very visible VPL, more prominent than usual.

    I love the pants and they cost me a fortune, so I'd like to wear them. But I honestly don't know if they cross the line from maybe catching some attention to actually making women uncomfortable.

    Can any of you ladies out there render an honest opinion? Picture attached.
     

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    Honestly, that will make the women think you're very happy to see them, and may make some uncomfortable. Anything you can do with positioning, or try different underwear, maybe something that is compressive, just for when you want to wear these slacks?

    I used to work for a man who everytime I walked into his office he would lean back in his chair and grope his penis, it really was very disturbing although perhaps I should have been flattered.
     
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    In that pic, I'm wearing some of my tightest boxer briefs. Was hoping to smooth things out.
     
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    I hate VPL's with a passion. I feel like a perv if it's showing, I normally wear my trousers loose and lower than normal as to reduce the VPL.

    ...also sticking to darker shades will reduce the shadowing effect making it less obvious.
     
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    Well that would be a bit freaky to see at work..You need to do something about your underwear LOlz

    But if you have a cute face as well..I say..keep wearing them as is..;-)
     
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    I tried regular loose boxers thinking that more hang would help. Not sure this is any better.
     

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    Cant you wear something tight that will keep your dick upwards?
     
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    I hate trying to wear it pointed up. Uncomfortable, and it usually falls down after a while anyway.
     
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    I think they look quite exciting but that's my dirty mind going. At work, I can understand your concern and see why some women were staring. For me it's a great thing to look at but some more closed off women might make them uncomfortable.

    I think something that would allow you to hang more downward would be best, so probably boxers are a good start. I think maybe you should try something between really tight boxer briefs and loose boxers. That might hold things in place just enough but let things lay more nicely. Maybe something with a pouch front that's big enough to fit everything?

    These come to mind: Calvin Klein Micro Modal Boxer Briefs | Nordstrom.com
     
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    Are you rockin' a softy in those pics? I'd guess like 7" soft from what I see, in which case you're pretty much doomed to display a VPL in those pants. If you are semi-hard, just uhh....don't be. Haha.
     
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    CKU micro modal are my favorite. I wear them almost every day. Here's a pic of me wearing them. Problem with the micro modal is, especially if you have a mushroom head like mine, you can see too much anatomy even through light fabric pants.
     

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    I must be psychic or something...or at least too intuitive for my own good. I agree, they show too much anatomy. In the bedroom, that's fun. With a heavier fabric, like jeans or wool, it'd probably be great. At work with a light colored fabric, not so much. Underwear is so difficult with different fabrics which is the problem. I love the slacks though so it might just be a matter of finding the right pair that does the trick.

    Have you tried these? I think they (maybe) might help and is also along the lines of what I meant with the CKU ones.

    Boss Orange - Striped Cyclist Boxer Briefs/2-Pack - Saks.com
     
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    I say fuck it. Enjoy the extra attention and use it to get laid in the future. They will be talking amongst themselves about your dick and then they will fantasize about it that night. I wish I had your problem.
     
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    Lol, I'm not sure women are going to talk about it in the office. Women aren't into the locker room chatter like us horndog men.
     
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    just let it show and do not worry about all women Do is look at it.

    i like for them to look.
     
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    I'm no lady. But I think those pants look great. You got it, flaunt it.

    Look at it this way: anybody who'd be offended is also going to be afraid to admit he/she was looking. Anybody who enjoys the sight - well, you've just done 'em a favor!
     
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    For as much as I enjoy looking at your package (it looks amazing in those slacks), it may be a bit strange for the office. But you should just feel out your enviornment. If your coworkers seem cool with it, just go with it.
     
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    Here's something to think about, too: movement.

    There are somethings I wear where when I'm walking, maybe for a moment with each step you can see the outline of my cock.

    There are other things I could wear where you would always see the outline of my cock no matter what position I was in.

    I'll wear the former but not the latter. If I were showing no matter what position I was in, moving, standing, whatever ... I'd probably skip wearing that stuff to work. But if people get a hint of what you look like from time to time ... that's different.
     
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    Probly it would attract less attention if you weren't sporting a semi or rockin a full boner.
     
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    I think its incredibly hot
     
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