I was at the hardware store looking for a replacement lag bolt. I figured it would be easier to take the old bolt in with me rather than mess around with measurements. I showed the lady the bolt and she said "I'm sure we have one, what is that, a four inch bolt?" I laughed and told her that no, it wasn't even close to four inches, more like two and a half inches. When we left the store, my friend told me a joke: "Well you know why women can't measure, right?" I shook my head no. "Because they've always been told that this (holding fingers about six inches apart) is nine solid inches!" So here are my questions for the ladies: How do you judge size when you first see a guy in a photo? How about when you see him for the first time in the flesh? Do you think you get a better idea of size from a video clip than from photos alone? Does a cock seem shorter to you if it is very thick? Conversely, does it seem longer if it is slim? What about the size of the head - does that influence your judgment of size? Do you describe a cock as "big" if it is average length but thick, or does it have to be long to be considered "big"?