Just attended a class on the vulva called Petting the Kitty (great class btw took it at Good Vibrations) and the instructor made the comment that
the 69 position is a horrible position for women from a physiological standpoint if the goal is to get her to orgasm. She further made the statement that not all, but many women do not care for that position - and here I thought it was just me!!!!!!
I can't stand the whole facesitting thing - detest it.
And I love to have my way with a cock in my mouth but I need full concentration.
Anything of mine being touched at the same time makes me lose focus. Let me do my thing then you can have all the time you want to do yours
(but I will NOT be sitting upon your face)