Originally posted by KidBrown@Aug 24 2005, 01:30 AM
Madame Zora, I actually laughed when I read the whole "affected shyness" comment. Honestly, I'm not THAT social of a person, but I've noticed that if I don't give too much of myself away early in a conversation and kind of "flirt with my eyes" (maybe you know what I mean) that it elicits a better response among women than being really forward. Once I get the physical contact signs though (a woman touching my chest softly, slapping me on the shoulder when I make a funny comment) than I start to open up more with the flirty comments. Seems to work too !!
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Yeah, you got it! There are a lot of guys who may really be shy, but aren't really as much of a loner type as they'd have one believe. That's the guy I'm looking for. They may actually be somewhat aware of their more positive traits, but for one reason or another decide not to knock me over with bragging about themselves. THAT'S the guy.
That skinny one who might be a little self-conscious but still knows he's cute. He might be shy about asking me if I want to hear him play guitar or read his poems, but inside he's really hoping I'll be into it. I'm in. That's usually the kind of guy who will turn himself inside out to make sure I'm having a good time with him sexually if it gets to that point.
Aloofman, I couldn't agree more. I know the female orgasm is harder to pin down, but we need the release just as much. I think if any research is ever done on it (har!

it will be discovered to be just as detrimental to go without as for men.