Women's View On Girth

Prefered Penis Girth

  • 3"

    Votes: 8 3.8%
  • 4"

    Votes: 8 3.8%
  • 5"

    Votes: 46 21.8%
  • 6"

    Votes: 102 48.3%
  • 7"

    Votes: 30 14.2%
  • 8"

    Votes: 17 8.1%

  • Total voters
    211
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fizzyjizz

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I think most women prefer girth to length. I mean i'm only 8inches and i cant even get all my cock into most pussies. But its really the girth that makes the difference.
 

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why would you waste any energy on a useless emotion like envy?

I'm just approaching this from the position of what it feels like to have to reaffirm someone of their worth. If there is such a thing as SPH, that someone gets gratification from being humiliated, it's an energy I don't want to engage. Even with self-worth issues, it robs someone else of energy to do that. So if this SPH thing is real, no I don't want to be baited by that.

Envy is a useless emotion for any reason.

I agree that humiliation is unhealthy, and I that is not my purpose here. That’s why I really resent all the stupid psychologizing and name-calling, as if people think they know a person on the basis of some others they’ve seen. And calling me a liar because they think something that happened to me sounded like a “fetish fantasy.” If I had wanted to make up a fetish fantasy, I could have done a lot better than that. The girl did not laugh or call me a “pencil dick”, but that has happened before and it was painful as hell.

Apparently there is such a thing as SPH (there is another thread by that name), but that doesn’t mean that every guy with a small dick suffers from it. People need to think twice before labeling others and then talking down to them as if they were some diseased cripple. The one thing I do like from women is honesty. Numerous women lied to me about my small size in the past and all it did was add to my frustration.

As for envy—I will admit to that. That’s just a fact. It may be a useless emotion but it’s also an understandable one from my perspective. And I will admit to being fascinated by men who are well-endowed and the women who lust for them, mainly because, for whatever reason (perhaps frustration), I am somewhat sexually obsessed. There is something about a woman being thrilled by a well-hung man that is absolutely intoxicating to me—perhaps because I have rarely witnessed female excitement other than in porno films.

Please just think twice before dumping on somebody because they fit some preconceived pigeonhole. Human psychology is a lot more complex than arbitrary, simple-minded stereotypes. And lecturing them when you have no idea where they are coming from is extremely disrespectful and insulting. Small penis or not, I assure you I have very high self-esteem—a lot more than any moron who spends half his life pumping his cock into an inflated balloon.

As a side note, I should tell those who suggested it that I have already had penile enlargement surgery. I have also tried various other techniques for girth enhancement but was advised by my doctor to give them up due to complications. So kindly spare me the lectures on “doing something about it.”
 

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I know a couple of ladies who would love you for anal. Do you get that a lot?

Yah I know a girl who's that way too. She loves me for vaginal sex, but prefers a smaller guy for her "all-around multi-orifice pleasure" as she finds anal with me quite painful and oral to be too much work and jaw-aching (she says her mouth is just too small for it; oh well)to really enjoy as she does with the other guy. So I don't get to have any fun besides regular old fucking. Not that I'm complaining.
 

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Hmmm. Not sure what you mean by "take advantage of the situation." If she just had wild, hot sex with a well-endowed man, she certainly isn't going to invite me over to play twiddle sticks.


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People have been known to change thier views
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I would say girth is very important, because it's kind of a length-multiplier: it makes one that isn't as long feel longer, because it's thicker going in. My preferred girth is at least 6", maybe 7".

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I would say girth is very important, because it's kind of a length-multiplier: it makes one that isn't as long feel longer, because it's thicker going in. My preferred girth is at least 6", maybe 7".

Aly

I´m "only" 7 in long, but most girls think I´m longer because of my girth.
 

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I agree that humiliation is unhealthy, and I that is not my purpose here. That’s why I really resent all the stupid psychologizing and name-calling, as if people think they know a person on the basis of some others they’ve seen. And calling me a liar because they think something that happened to me sounded like a “fetish fantasy.” If I had wanted to make up a fetish fantasy, I could have done a lot better than that. The girl did not laugh or call me a “pencil dick”, but that has happened before and it was painful as hell.

Apparently there is such a thing as SPH (there is another thread by that name), but that doesn’t mean that every guy with a small dick suffers from it. People need to think twice before labeling others and then talking down to them as if they were some diseased cripple. The one thing I do like from women is honesty. Numerous women lied to me about my small size in the past and all it did was add to my frustration.

As for envy—I will admit to that. That’s just a fact. It may be a useless emotion but it’s also an understandable one from my perspective. And I will admit to being fascinated by men who are well-endowed and the women who lust for them, mainly because, for whatever reason (perhaps frustration), I am somewhat sexually obsessed. There is something about a woman being thrilled by a well-hung man that is absolutely intoxicating to me—perhaps because I have rarely witnessed female excitement other than in porno films.

Please just think twice before dumping on somebody because they fit some preconceived pigeonhole. Human psychology is a lot more complex than arbitrary, simple-minded stereotypes. And lecturing them when you have no idea where they are coming from is extremely disrespectful and insulting. Small penis or not, I assure you I have very high self-esteem—a lot more than any moron who spends half his life pumping his cock into an inflated balloon.

As a side note, I should tell those who suggested it that I have already had penile enlargement surgery. I have also tried various other techniques for girth enhancement but was advised by my doctor to give them up due to complications. So kindly spare me the lectures on “doing something about it.”

Well you admit to an obsession and that isn't healthy either. How about suspending this comparison just for a minute? I think if you read the other thread about a woman's best experience...you'll many instance women are stating it's not how well hung he was that did it for her. Just an idea.
 

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Most guys don't have anything to worry about. You don't say what your size is, but you're probably bigger than I am. The average penis is at least an inch thicker in circumference.

Dude im only 4.5 all around. I was really hoping it would fill out but it didn't. You are not alone in the girth department