Exactly. It ws obvious she was very excited and eager for sex until she saw my dick. She was hoping to see something the size of meatpackingbubba's! I kind of doubt she would have had to make a phone call. She would have drooled all over it!
Wow, I too find this so hard to believe. I've been with a guy who I can kindly say was small, but omg! He could use his mouth and hands, and yes, his entire body when he made love. Now, I was wayyyyy into him, his personality, his body, his attitude, the whole package (he was 'the one') and I absolutely had the best sex with him I've ever had in my life. (later found out he was a player, but hey! The sex was fucking fantastic!)
Girth? Size? Not so convinced it's a requirement. I think she was entitled to the decline, but if that was all she wanted -- a big dick -- she should have, I don't know, felt you up? Then stuck to the kissing and let you go. But to get naked like that? And then have you leave....it just seemed insensitive, but I wasn't there. Maybe this was a one time only date/meet? Not sure, but please don't believe that all women are like this, or that you HAVE to have a big dick. I, for one, don't believe it.
And, wow, good for you not to be hurt/bothered too much by it.