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JoeAgain: Ok ladies, I am posting this here to get a woman's perspective.
There is a girl in the office I work at, she and I are the only ones in the whole office under the age of 30, so basically we started hanging out by default. She is engaged, and knows I am as well. We always go to lunch together, and usually neither of us want anything to eat, so we basically waste an hour driving around and bullshitting etc. Now I know that the people in the office think there's something going on (but I've never been the kind of person to adjust my actions based on other people's perceptions), but up until this point it has been completely innocent.
Recently though, since the weather has been nicer, we have been going to this park near our work and just walking around and shit, it has a nice lake and bike paths and what-not. Now my question comes in here. The other day we took a path we usually don't. On this path we came to a small play area for kids. In this area were some monkey bars and stuff. She made the comment about how much she used to love playing on them when she was younger. I said she should go ahead. She said she couldn't because she was wearing a skirt, and didn't have any panties on.
Now, at the time I was completely oblivious, and continued on. However now I'm thinking about it, and it seems that she could have just said no, but there was a reason she wanted me to know she wasn't wearing any panties.
My question for the ladies is this: am I reading too much into this? Is it usual to offhandedly say soemthing like this, something that a normal woman would volunteer? Was I a moron who missed a blatant come-on? Not that I would have acted on it anyway, but it is always an ego boost to be desired, or am I just making it out to be more than it is?
As always thanks in advance for any insight =)
There is a girl in the office I work at, she and I are the only ones in the whole office under the age of 30, so basically we started hanging out by default. She is engaged, and knows I am as well. We always go to lunch together, and usually neither of us want anything to eat, so we basically waste an hour driving around and bullshitting etc. Now I know that the people in the office think there's something going on (but I've never been the kind of person to adjust my actions based on other people's perceptions), but up until this point it has been completely innocent.
Recently though, since the weather has been nicer, we have been going to this park near our work and just walking around and shit, it has a nice lake and bike paths and what-not. Now my question comes in here. The other day we took a path we usually don't. On this path we came to a small play area for kids. In this area were some monkey bars and stuff. She made the comment about how much she used to love playing on them when she was younger. I said she should go ahead. She said she couldn't because she was wearing a skirt, and didn't have any panties on.
Now, at the time I was completely oblivious, and continued on. However now I'm thinking about it, and it seems that she could have just said no, but there was a reason she wanted me to know she wasn't wearing any panties.
My question for the ladies is this: am I reading too much into this? Is it usual to offhandedly say soemthing like this, something that a normal woman would volunteer? Was I a moron who missed a blatant come-on? Not that I would have acted on it anyway, but it is always an ego boost to be desired, or am I just making it out to be more than it is?
As always thanks in advance for any insight =)